Do you agree that it doesnt matter whether we speak or not in this life?

Question

like, when you give an advice to a friend its useless cause it would always be up to her to follow it or not so why give any, and to stop worrying about things that are outside your control and just focus on the present, on what you could do for your life or how you would be satisfied at present and just forget other ideas if you cannot solve them at the moment?

Answer 1

You must be angry right now at someone for not listening to you.

But if any man or woman did not speak during his/her entire life, whether with voice or with hands or with pen or with chisel and marble or paint and canvas--he/she would not never complete his/her humanity. That would be a very lonely person who would have no friends whatsoever, and I don't think a human can live long as an adult who does not show his/her thoughts in one way or another. An emotionally damaged child can get by for a few years without ever speaking, but eventually they all begin to speak. An adult's mind --not brain, but the emotional world we all live in --would atrophy, and he/she would die.