Do you agree that it is morally acceptable to have a bit on the side?

Question

if your wife is a feminist?

After all, a man needs to find some civility and niceness somewhere.

Answer 1

I wouldn't consult my conscience at all, yes I'd most definitely have a bit on the side. Don't let our modern feminist society get to you, if you feel a need for more then don't deny your self.

I mean even a girl that makes you incredibly happy, verity is still the spice of life! There is nothing to be ashamed about there.

My girlfriend understands that, if I ask her to visit family for the weekend so I can bring back a girl she goes happily, that's why after 3 years we still have an incredibly close & happy relationship.

Answer 2

It is as long as you dont change what you love about your wife and that you know she will never find out and that you did it purely for hedonistic reasons. I dont understand why people get married just to put themselves through h**l like this. Theres' your answer. Divorce. Then, no questions. Just do it.  

Answer 3

No, it's not morally acceptable in my opinion.  Are you just thinking these thoughts? Have you ever done anything about it - or are you looking for encouragement to go and do something about it?  Of course you deserve civility and niceness, doesn't everyone.  I think you have the answer in your own head.

Answer 4

Morally - no. Though it may be acceptable in other ways.

If you lack civility and niceness at home I hardly think a bit on the side is the way to bring back honesty caring and intimacy to your relationship do you?

Answer 5

Def NOT acceptable!  If he's married, then he needs to stay with only her.

Answer 6

Only if your a male.All women should remain virgins however..Ha ha

Answer 7

No sir.

Answer 8

I think your position is precarious if you are married to someone who thinks your s*x is the oppressor.   I would not put up with it, but then you know your situation best.  

Answer 9

Ladies first. Make sure she gets her bit on the side FIRST. That way it's even and fair.

Answer 10

On the side, on top, from the rear - it doesn't really matter as long as I have a bit.

Answer 11

Well obviously if your wife isn't being civil to you you either married the wrong woman, or she married the wrong man. Sounds like she's the one who needs a bit on the side...

Answer 12

I am not married, but if I did not want to be married to a feminist hopefully I would know that about her before marriage.

If already married before she became unkind and uncivil I am not sure what I would do. Technically it is still not acceptable to look for comfort somewhere else.

Perhaps a good toss in the shower then hanging out with mates at pub would be a better choice. Hopefully the old girl will leave you!

Misery may love company, but we don't have to be the company.

"People to Stop Male-Pattern Misery by Avoiding Marriage"

Charles--Chairman and chief publicist.  

Answer 13

That's one excuse.

Answer 14

niceness?you sound real nice mate grow some balls

Answer 15

No I do not.

Answer 16

Like an open relationship type arrangement? I think it's only morally OK if she's truly comfortable with it. Otherwise it's cheating, regardless of her being a feminist. Makes for an interesting conversation or debate with your wife, depending on whether she's an open-minded feminist or a bitter one. I'm not implying that your wife is bitter. For all I know, she is open-minded & might find the conversation interesting but that doesn't mean she will be comfortable with an open relationship.