Do you agree that women are typically rude to other woman?

Question

I was talking with my husband last night and I told him that my neighbor is rude to me, I only told him this because she was outside as we were leaving. He then told me that she is nice and I shouldn't say that. I told him she is nice to him because he was male, he didn't agree with me and his reaction to my statement made me feel a little crazy. So, will anyone agree with me or am I really crazy for feeling this way?

Answer 1

I agree with you that women can be a little cat like to each other. Unfortunately, we've trained ourselves to be in competition with each other  over who's smarter, who's skinnier, and who's more beautiful. It's really sad actually.

Answer 2

At work I find most everyone is cordial, but on the outside, I noticed that after high school, a lot of women are not interseted in making new friends, and I find that rude. I used to go out and play free poker at the clubs to try to make new friends, and noticed that women there will only really talk to males. Very discouraging, so I quit going. It's tough and I miss my female friends.

Answer 3

I'm SO hot, no one speaks to me!  HAHHAHA.  Honestly, women can be very catty.  It's a shame.  I have very attractive girlfriends and I think that's great for them.  But then again, I can usually find something attractive about just about anyone...unless they are mean and evil on the inside...then that makes them ugly on the outside too.  Vanity is ugly to me.  

Answer 4

For some reason, women seem to always be in competition with other woman - even when there is no competition going on.  I have taught my two daughters several things when it comes to other women -

1.  Men come and go, but your women friends will be there forever.

2. Never touch another woman's man.

3. Always remember how sensitive a woman's heart is...even to a off-handed comment

4. Men try to divide - it is only through unity that women stand a chance.

Answer 5

haha thats just how girls/woman are rude to each other majority of the time. but maybe she has a reason for not liking you that you dont recall of,or maybe she is jealous of you like your husband house car or i dont know you nor what you look like but she could be jealous of your looks.

Answer 6

Your right to be angry at you husband for not standing up for you hon!

I would insisted he doesn't talk or wave to her ever again, as his duty as your husband is to you not her. I had a aunt that hated other women and she was beautiful in her day.But she was like your neighbor a women hater.Tell your husband to have more respect for you not her and if he is outside ignore her completely.And if she asks why you run out there and tell her if she can't be nice to you and respect you both don't bother talking with or to your husband for you and him are married and in case

of her being rude to you don't bother with you or your husband.

Lay this on her she well deserves it.Plus it your husband is standing there it will show him your not taking any c**p from him or her..

I know them kind of women,They are trouble makers and want you and him to fight .Don't fall into her trap and stay away from her upsetting  

you home. you are right to feel this way my dear.          

Answer 7

Women act like this to other women because many many women out there are just insecure. It's their issue, not yours. Just forget about her, or at best be the 'bigger person' and kill her with kindness.  

Answer 8

Maybe she doesn't like you.

I don't have this problem though............ My neighbors are great

Answer 9

I don't think women are rude to other women. I think it may be the case for some women that are jealous, hateful, or whatever. How about go over and knock on the door smiling. Ask her if she would like to come over becaue you just made some cinnamon rolls. Get to know her. Sounds more like you two got off on the wrong foot. She may say the same about you.

Answer 10

I've run into this quite a few times myself. My husband and I are on a bowling league with his sister and whenever we bowl a team with women they are b*tchy to me and his sis. We try to be nice like "oh hey nice spare" ect and they just glare at us and walk away

Answer 11

They sure are, you want to know why? We know how we act.  

Answer 12

You are not crazy. Women are very insecure and catty when we should be all about sisterhood etc

Havent' had a female friend in years bc of the c**p they play.I'm too old for it now.

I just moved into the neighbourhood a month a go. One woman went around the entire 'hood and said I was a lousy mom and a boozer. So all three of her neighbours bypassed me. Didn't make their own judgement but went by what she said --all bc some elder neighbour said I did a lot of work around the house and my kids were cute etc.

Slowly this past week bc they've had a rift amongst themself they will come and talk but I'm at the point why bother.

Females are 100% backstabbing b*tches.

Answer 13

Maybe she is jealous of you, Cindy.

Answer 14

Women who are insecure about themselves or what they have and are jealous of you and what you have are of course going to be rude because they envy you. I'm sure you remember in highschool when girls used to just not like you for no reason, well that's because they were jealous of something and insecure with themselves. Maybe you're s**y, have a s**y husband and she envies that or sees you as a threat to her husband. Whatever it is, some women can just be downright b*tches and it's not your fault...Keep holding your head up high with a smile and keep your confidence and let her keep being a b*tch.

Answer 15

Girls are mean. We learned that in elementary school. And their meanest to other girls, as you learned in elementary school. Some people are naturally polite and kind. They are rarely rude, and they have to make an effort to be rude. Some people are naturally rude. When they're nice, they have to make an effort to be nice. She's making an effort because he's male.  

Answer 16

I think as a species you're all nuts.

Answer 17

I never understood why women hate on each other.

No matter what it is there is some type of envy there.

Answer 18

Yeah, other women are typically rude to me, too -- and in general I am a very polite person!

I think it's jealousy. ;)

s***w 'em!

Answer 19

You're not crazy. I agree with you. If you are attracted and have it going on most women ivy that. The next time she is outside you and your husband should go out and introduce yourselves. She needs to understand that the man she is being nice to is your husband.  

Answer 20

You must be hot because women in real life are like that to me too.....and the reason is usually obvious.

Be hot, enjoy life and tell them to go F**k themselves.

Answer 21

Im only 13 but i look older than what I am but me and my mom have noticed when we hang out that I get the evil eye a lot. Girls can be catty and try to bring you down. We just laugh it off tho.  

Answer 22

I think this was out of the norm.  Typically women aren't rude to another woman unless they have a specific reason to be.

Answer 23

I agree, women seem to be always in a competition. Though I dont have any of them fighting over me. :(