Do you bear a grudge against sombody?

Question

Do you bear a grudge against sombody?

Answer 1

yes, although it's not good for your own mental health to do so and in time you have to forgive people no matter how heinous the offense.

forgiving someone is probably the hardest thing a person can do in life.  i know it's hard for me at times.  some of the things that we do to each other are shameful and "unforgivable", but we all must try.  bad deeds can spread like a virus (taking it out on others) so you have to ask yourself if you want to live life perpetuating bad behavior and having your heart blacken bit by bit, day by day.  people are inherently good; it's what happens to them and how they handle bad situations along the way that can turn them "bad".  in other words, we have the choice to make each other bad or good, it's up to us.  you have to be introspective, always, and do what's best for you in the long run.  i'm not saying that you have directly to tell the offender that you forgive them(although i recommend doing so if it's a person you will have a lifelong relationship with such as family), but you, often over time, have to at the very least tell yourself that you've forgiven someone.  life is too short to carry grudges for too long.

Answer 2

Yes.  This person intentionally lied to me causing me great financial and personal loss of things that I can never ever replace, and I had to do things I never wanted to do just to keep myself from going to prison for the rest of my life - - all for money.  When I figured it out, I called and told him I was on my way to his house to "discuss" it - - by the time I got there in less than 20 minutes, he had packed and moved.  I swore if I ever saw him again, he would not be going anywhere after that.  I suppose you could call that a grudge.

Answer 3

yes why not but i try to forget it because i dont like bother my self for useless thingssssssssssss.

Answer 4

no.........I don't forget but no grudge.........

Answer 5

No I just except peoples differences and let them live their life.  

Answer 6

i think it all depends on the circumstances i suppose. Some people do things that are really unforgivable. But to answer your question yes i do. Only one person though. x

Answer 7

it depends  

Answer 8

Yes!

Answer 9

never hold a grudge be mad but a grudge only ends up hurting you it is ok to let go of pain its healthy