I have five grandchildren two of them are boys ages 11 and 9. For their birthdays, and other holidays as well as Christmas I always send them gifts or money. As I live a fair distance from them (about 8,000 miles) it isn't possible for me to be there in person, however, I do write to them and always include a special note with my gifts. They don't call me, but their mother does email me. They also don't take the time to drop me a short note to thank me for the gifts. If I didn't ask, I wouldn't even know they received them. I have explained to my daughter that I don't feel this is right and that her children should be made to write thank you notes to people who take the time to shop and give them gifts. She feels I am picking on her parenting skills. My sister in law has stopped sending the children gifts as she never received thank you notes either. She also told th I have made my point, but still receive no notes. Should I just send cards without gifts?
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