Do you believe in 2nd marriage after 1st fail?

Question

Do you believe in 2nd marriage after 1st fail?

Answer 1

The divorce rate for 2nd marriages is 41%-50%. So your odds are pretty decent when considering that. The marriage is what you make it though. Hopefully you have learned from your mistakes.  

Answer 2

It really all depends on the situation.

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Answer 3

sure, its really all up to how you feel about a second marriage.

me, personally, i never wanna get married again. i have a great bf who has never been married and would one day like to get married, but i say no. because living together and being happy the way we are is us. and why do i need a ring and vows to say I'm going to be faithful to him?

if you feel like you have found the right person go for it.

Answer 4

Nope. I guess it depends on how bad the first was but i really doubt i would ever even consider a 2nd marriage after a divorce. Once would b enough for me.

Answer 5

Of course, give yourself another chance. But personally, I would not get remarried. I've given everything I've got to my hubby that I don't know if I have more to give =)

Answer 6

Yes, I do. My first failed from him abusing me and our kids. I wasn't looking for anyone and then one day a fella caught my eye and two years after being together we got married. I loved him with all my heart and when I found out he was rapingmy daughters and went to pprisonor 7 years I gave up on being married for fear of being hurt. But for the time we had together we never fault with each other. I thought I was the luckiest person in the world, had a very happy family, no one fault, they would play wrestle, and go for walks all the time [the girls would beg him to go], swim in the pool etc.. But until I found out what he was doing I was very lucky.

If I could find the right guy now I would give marrage another try. I would do it in a heart beat. If you are worried about God, don't be. God wants you to be happy and have compaionship. He does't want people to give up on something he wanted up to have for comfort and pleasure in life. " He saw that it was good."      

Answer 7

Well, not with the same two people!!

I was married for 14 years - but for a thousand reasons, it ended in divorce.  Now I'm in a wonderful relationship with a fantastic woman who loves me more than I deserve.

I hope to marry this woman some day.  When I think of when that day will be, quite honestly it scares me to death.  I do not want to be divorced again.  The process is so painful.

Then again, she and I have been through Fire and Rain.  It's a little scary for both of us, but we need to trust in each other and commit to our relationship.

YES - I believe in 2nd marriage after 1st fail.

Answer 8

No, same game only different player.

But it doesn't mean you should take that risk to complicate the **** out of your life.

Answer 9

NO because his word is shot to h**l.

Answer 10

Yes.  The first marriage may have failed, but look at it as a lesson learned instead of a mistake... and make the best of the next marriage...  

Answer 11

I hope so! It would suck to think that just because 2 people can't get along and get a divorce, that they are both doomed to never be happy again.  I think marriage is what you make it. If you made a mistake on your first one, learn from it and make the 2nd one the best you can!

Answer 12

I am speaking out of total inexperience.  I have never been married.  But I do believe that a second marriage can be great, even if the first one failed.  People just have to be honest with themselves about why the first one failed.  What part did you play in the failure?  Have you resolved these issues?

Answer 13

I personally don't, but that's just me.  I've only married once and hope to never do it again.

Answer 14

Of course, but you better have learned from the 1st what not to do wrong in the second.

Answer 15

sure... if you know what mistakes were made to cause the first one to fail, then you will know better, what you have to change in yourself, and what kind of man to pick for your second marriage... its sad that more people dont take their time to really get to know a person before getting married the first time.. then maybe there wouldnt be so many divorces

Answer 16

GO FOR IT!

Answer 17

Absolutely! Some people do things when they are young that they regret. people change and maybe they had to be married once before to know how to make the 2nd one work, with the right person

Answer 18

Absolutely. My second marriage is the best thing that ever happened to either of us.  

Answer 19

I  know  a  man  who  just  had    his  seventh  and    now    in  trouble  and   still   believes she  is  out  there;  the  right  one ;................. what  do  you  think ?

Answer 20

Absolutely. Everyone deserves a chance, or 2, at true love and a happy life. we learn from our mistakes and experiences, a second marriage is nothing but a second chance to get it right.

Answer 21

sure, there's nothing wrong with it

you shouldn't love alone if you don't want to just because the first time didn't go so well

Answer 22

Yes. Your first marraige failed for a reason. There's something  better in store for you. Just...be careful. Especially if you have children.  You don't want to rush into anything too fast just to feel loved.

God loves you and will probably send you someone perfect for you.

Answer 23

marriage is supposed to be a 1 time thing, unless you are a widow/widower

if you fail the first time, you should NOT do it again...

especially if you have kids...  if you did something to hurt your spouse/kids during the first marriage, you don't deserve to marry ever again...

that's the truth...

Answer 24

This is my first marriage, but it's my hubby's second. Like me, my hubby thinks I am his true love and soulmate too.

Answer 25

acccording to statistics the more times you have been married the better chance that you will fail in your next marriage.

Answer 26

I didn't until I met the right man.

Answer 27

yes

Answer 28

I am in my first marriage, which has lasted for 22 years so far, so I definitely believe first marriages can work.  My wife is in her second marriage, which has also lasted for 22 years so far, so I definitely believe second marriages can also work!

Answer 29

at first i thought no way

how can you say the same vows twice and mean them

now my gf is pregnant so i really want to get married

circumstances change so so will I