Do you believe in "friends with benefits"? ?

Question

Me and my boyfriend broke up and I guess that our relationship was based on s*x. After breaking up, s*x is the thing I miss the most from us being together. Is it okay to you to "do stuff" with each other but not be serious? It's not like I "do stuff" with tons of guys. He is the only one that I ever have.

Answer 1

"Friends with benefits" only works if both parties are cool with it and if both parties are okay with not wanting anything more than that.  "Friends with benefits" doesn't work out a lot of times because one person generally wants more of a relationship.  But, if the 2 of you have already been down the route of already having dated, it will probably work out.  But, just be careful that he is not "friends with benefits" with a lot of other people, too, because you don't know where the other girls have been.  Also, if you begin dating someone else or he begins dating someone else exclusively, it's probably best to end the "Friends with benefits" because you don't need a crazy girlfriend coming at you.

Answer 2

Live like a pig, sure why not.  People have no morals anymore.  So why should you?

Answer 3

Yupp friends with benefits is awsome

Answer 4

Well it is a bad idea because usually it leads to attachment. You should just find a new boyfriend and be patient.

Answer 5

well it can go one of two ways...

you either have zero problams and it all works out

or

you decide you want to move on and your friend gets jealous cuz they've developed feelings for you

i've been in both situations