the man should first get permission from his prospective bride's father? I thought that most people would agree with me that this tradition was well out-dated. But when I said this on Yahoo Answers in response to another question, I got the most thumbs down I ever did (17, as opposed to only 3 thumbs up!).
Explain to me please, why the man should do this. If you think he should, then why shouldn't the woman feel obligated to ask the man's mother for permission to marry her son (what's good for the goose is good for the gander)? Doesn't this silly tradition simply harken back to the days when women were not only considered the weaker s*x, but basically the property of their fathers and then their husbands? And, what if the woman's father says "no?" Should the marriage not happen, or should they show some defiance and go through with it anyway? If they should defy the bride's father, then why bother asking him in the first place?
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