Do you believe that true love will come at the right time if you dont settle and give up on it ?

Question

examples from your own life would be great

Answer 1

Love comes when you are not looking for it and I don't believe anyone should settle just because they feel it's time to settle down. However, if you are always looking for this ultimate true love it is easy to miss what is standing in front of you which could be your true love.

With that said, I had my whole life planned out and I wasn't thinking about getting serious with anyone. Especially someone that was in the military, but I met my husband by chance. He wasn't the type of man I ever imagine myself being with, but the way he made me feel told me otherwise. I decided to forgo my life plan to be with him and I haven't looked back.

Answer 2

Yes i do.

I met my husband when i was 21 and not looking for love or a relationship.

I have always heard that when your not looking is when you find that someone special and i totally believe that.

Answer 3

All love is true, else it isn't really love.

You definitely reduce your chance of crossing paths with someone to love if you choose to "settle"...and having settled myself once I can tell you I didn't find the experience to be pleasurable at all. I'd rather be single the rest of my life, than in a relationship and not happy (and settling wasn't happy for me at all).

Go about your life, pay attention to those that cross your path. There are MANY people on this earth who would be great partners for you...you only need to meet one of them. ☺

Answer 4

True Love always seems to happen when you arent searching for it.

- I was 19 and in college. My bi-polar bf at the time had  just attempted suicide and was released to his mothers custody who lived in another state. I was bummed out. We had been broken up for a few months and I just went about my normal routine, school, work, home. Day in and day out trying to get over him. When I was at work I met my now husband. I wasnt looking for it, but it found me. We have been married for 4 years now and have 2 beautiful children.

Good Luck!  

Answer 5

I knew a man that sounded just like you. Always talking about finding his soul mate and true love. The problem is we all want to find this perfect love, but it is nothing like what you see in the movies. You don’t ride off into the sunset and live happily ever after. You are going to have good times and bad times. Someone has to clean the dishes, do the grocery shopping and pay the bills. However, if you are truly in love you can see past the humdrum and live a happy and fulfilling life.

My friend who is now 37 years old is still chasing this dream of perfect love. I have watched him miss out on real love so many times, because he was looking for this perfect love. When he meets someone its always love at first sight, then when reality kicks in and they have a headache or not in the mood or they want him to pick something up or get angry he automatically starts pulling back and thinking this isn’t real love. She should always adore me and be nice and loving every moment of the day. So he starts looking again, while he’s still with them and breaks up saying I met someone else. Then it starts all over again. He has been doing that since he was 14 years old, twenty – three years and still hasn’t found his definition of true love, but he has blew off the ones I saw which were true loves, but he never saw it.

So it is nice to have this ideal of true love, but you should also keep in mind once you find love it isn’t always perfect and pretty every minute of the day. However, if you are truly in love then you are willing to work on things with them no matter what.

Answer 6

Yes, It didn't happen until I was 26 but we are still together after all these years. I knew it was true love shortly after we met.

Answer 7

I do believe that true love will come at the right time if you don't settle.

I settled because I was so desperate to be loved and to love someone.  I settled and knew I was settling when I accepted his proposal for marriage.  I knew he didn't treat me the way I wanted to be treated.  I knew he wasn't a good person, but I married him anyway and now I am separated because of his constant cheating.

I should have waited.  I was only 24 years old when I thought I would never find anyone.  

So, don't ever settle.  If you feel in your gut that someone is not right for you, don't even try to convince yourself that it's you or that you will get used to the person or that you will give him a chance.  If it doesn't feel right, it's not right.  You know when someone is for you.  If God has someone for you, that person will find you.  Don't even look.  Just try to be happy being single, find a relationship with God and ask Him to send someone great your way.  And then, just wait.

Answer 8

If you settle, then where is the true love? Could the true love come after you are married to the person you settled with? Then it's to late....True Love will come at the right time, the right place, the right year. Be Patient

Answer 9

ABSOLUTELY, do not settle, how can you live with yourself if you just settle. How would your wife or husband feel if you just settled for them?