Do you believe that wishes come true?

Question

This summer i wished that me and my friends would be in the same classes. It came true, but we don't hang out anymore. And I wished for a boyfriend but now im going with a guy that i see as a brother. Isnt that weird that they all came true but they went wrong?

Answer 1

No, it's not weird.

No, I'm not surprised. The old adage of being careful of what you wish for is true indeed...you were probably to general and as such they went "wrong".

On the other hand, if you are too specific there is not enough room for things to come to fruition...learn to ask the question correctly.

For example, instead of saying "I'd like a boyfriend." say "I'd like a boyfriend who I can feel passionate about and who feels the same about me."

Or something to that effect...you're leaving it open but at the same time setting limits on what you really want.

Answer 2

Some wishes will come true (by luck of the draw or by our efforts to make them so), and others won't despite our best efforts. That's life.

Answer 3

It's the old story:  Be careful what you wish for it may come true!

Just the fact that you make a wish sets off a whole chain of events.  Just the way you act from then could set  up a set of circumstances to make it come true, like the way you smile at someone may change the way they see you!

Any good athlete uses visualization to gain an edge in sports, the old see the ball-- be the ball-- see the ball going where you want.  It's the same with wishes--see the wish--be the wish--make it happen!  Oh ya friends are the best lovers because they are your friend first.  My wife is my best friend!

Answer 4

I believe that whether or not a wish comes true is dependent upon how much attraction energy one puts out when one makes the wish - the more energy one sends out in order to attract the positive outcome of that wish to oneself, the more likely it is that one's wish will come true.

       In terms of your situation,  I think that 2 things happened: 1) most likely, the reason why you wished that you and your friends were in the same classes was because in the back of your mind, you were worried that someday you'd never see or speak to your friends again and that worry caused what happened to you, in regards to you not hanging out with them anymore. 2) This situation with finding a boyfriend, which resulted in you finding a guy whom you see as a brother, was most likely the result of you wishing that the boyfriend you find would be like a brother to you.

     I also don't believe that wishes necessarily come true right away, because 14 years ago, I wished for a dog, but didn't get one until 7 weeks ago. The reason for a wish coming true years later is, in my opinion, because when one puts the wish out there, when one sends out that desire for something, what happens is that when the higher-ups decide that the timing is right, then one gets what one wished for.

Answer 5

Some do some don't.Nothing weird about it.that's why they say watch out for what you wish for.

Answer 6

If you do believe than apparently u were not specific enough in your wish

Answer 7

I believe wishes frequently come true if they coincide with things that come to pass.  In other words, sometimes.

Answer 8

wishes can come true. in a way. check out www.thesecret.tv and heres a couple of movies that prove you can make them come true

1 The Secret

2 What the Bleep do We Know

enjoy.

Answer 9

I don't believe they do but it's nice to think they might.

Answer 10

Maybe you are making so much of an effort to make your wishes come true that you are disreguarding the details.

Ok, you got a boyfriend, but hes not someone you are attracted to. Its just someone you are going out with to fullfill what you thought you desired.

You got into the classes with your friends, now hanging out with them makes you guys feel like your in school all day.

Just relax and enjoy life, and whatever you do, don't wish to be pregnant until you get married.......please!