If my kids are having issues with manners or responsibility or truthfulness or whatever I make it a point to work on that particular problem with them until it's resolved. It strikes me that as parents we would do well to set the same kind of goals to improve ourselves. So if I'm not spending enough time with a particular kid, or staying calm when there's a problem, or being active enough with the kids, or modeling healthy eating, or being cheerful even when I'm exhausted, or whatever, I should really be setting that issue as my goal for the next week or two or however long it takes to make it a habit to do better.
Do you evaluate yourself as a parent and keep looking for things you could do better? Do you set goals for yourself? Does it work? What goals are you currently working on?
Tomorrow's goal: give up Y! Answers, lol. Too addictive, and even though I multitask and am generally talking to my kids while I'm typing, they should have my focused attention. Tomorrow. :-)
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