Do you consider a 3some to be sleazy?

Question

Some people set very high moral standards for themselves that they often judge a person mostly when it comes to them being lecherous. I have morals too but I like s*x and I feel like if I marry some one, I have to be compatible with them sexual as well as mentally. I don't engage in obscene lude acts, but I love to please the person I see as a potential partner is life. I wouldn't have a 3some married, but I would with some one I was dating if we agreed upon it. What do you think about 3somes?

Answer 1

WHEN U DO IT RECORD IT AND LET US SEE IT BABY

Answer 2

From just about EVERY relationship expert I've heard discuss this, they've said it's a bad idea. It often leads to the breakup of the relationship and it also can be an indicator of intimacy problems among 1 or both partners.

                                      Personally I would think that if I couldn't enjoy s*x with just my partner whom I love, then there's something I need to reevaluate. s*x is great, why do you need to put your relationship at risk?

Answer 3

i've been asked to do a 3some, many times by the same person. i considered it, and to be honest it's something that i might enjoy. but then i thought about how i'd feel afterwards, and i couldn't be sure that i would feel ok about it, so i never did it.

Answer 4

i'm not a judgmental person, so it doesn't bother me when people have threesomes. its not something i would do, but you know, whatever floats your boat!

Answer 5

There is nothing wrong with having a threesome....actually, I engaged in one in college...none of us were actually dating...so it wasn't such a bad thing. I've never had one with someone I was dating, though, as it can potentially lead to problems in the relationship. It's too risky. I have thought about it, though. I'm opened to new things...maybe...maybe not....who knows.

XOXO

Answer 6

with you?   sure..   email me : D  

Answer 7

Personally, whatever makes you happy. It's none of mine or anyone else's business what you want to do. Whatever floats your boat darlin', have fun !!!!!

Answer 8

Most people, whether married or not, who engage in threesomes almost always end up breaking up.  It takes a very secure and non-jealous free-spirit to be able to mentally deal with the fact their significant other is lusting and engaging with another person.  Were they better than I? Do they do X better? Are they bigger? These are all the questions that will run through a person's mind for a long time after, and the woman will wonder if her man is secretly lusting after the other woman which will lead to insecurities, arguments and eventually breakups.

So, I don't condone them. Not because I have anything against them morally, but because most people cannot handle the after-effects.

Answer 9

I think that if that is what you want to do...it's your life. I personally wouldn't do it, because I think that if you are going to be intimate with someone, they should mean something to you and I don't believe in sport f 'ing. That's just me...I don't judge anyone.

Answer 10

That depends, does the 3some involve a girl or guy. If its a girl h**l I would do it everyday of my life. That would be a mans dream, no man sane would turn down a girlfriend asking for that.lol

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Huckleberryjay, I won't call you Huck or Jay, but pedophile has a good ring to it.

Answer 11

How about this... I won't call you Catalina or Geita but w***e sure does have a nice ring to it.

Answer 12

I AGREE WITH ELIZABELLA, IF MY BF AGREED ON IT I WOULDN'T MIND.

Answer 13

hmmm i've done this before and at best i found it distracting, maybe it's due to my being used to focusing on one at a time but i had a somewhat difficult time concentrating when so much was going on all at once

Answer 14

two girls and me yeah but i cant exactly *** both of them so it makes it pointless

Ill never have s*x with another man in the room let alone 3 some with another man FUKKKK dat seeing a next mans dik onda scene nah i dont swing that way.

but your are girl and your all freaks deep down so go ahead you know your going to do it your just looking for morality in it but being moral is a bunch of c**p altogether

Answer 15

I wouldn't do it , and yes I do think it is sleazy.... so what I am sure that I am gonna get judged for that view... it goes both ways

Answer 16

How you're talking, if you're single or just dating I don't see a problem with it. I had a lot of fun when I was in my 20's and did a 4-some once time with guys only, it is considered sleazy to some and I admit at the time I was a lost person looking to make a man happy and yeah it was S****y but at the time I didn't care and I still  don't regret it--bc it was a learning experience. It did end up causing my BF and I to split tho bc he couldn't handle it, jealous etc even tho it was his idea in the first place.

In a marriage tho,when you invite others into the bedrooom I don't care what anyone says,  it has and does lead to trouble if not sooner, but eventually.