Do you consider looking at pornography cheating on your significant other?

Question

This is not a problem that I am facing. I just wondered what the general consensus is?

In my opinion, it is cheating if used excessively or if you would rather be using pornography instead of having sexual relations with your significant other.

What do you think?

Answer 1

No. No physical contact or verbal contact in an explicit nature. Not cheating.

Answer 2

cheating to me is going behind the others back and having s*x with them

Answer 3

no!

Answer 4

Yes.

Answer 5

I agree with you. It depends on how much p**n they're into.

Answer 6

i dont think its cheating at all

Answer 7

No, p**n is not cheating. However, if someone would rather view p**n than be with their significant other, than there is a problem! Whether it be with the relationship or a mental condition, there is definitely a problem! But p**n can be fun! There is nothing wrong with watching it.  

Answer 8

Yes, I agree with you. If the sig. other ends up being neglected, then it's a problem. However, sometimes people actually use it to get themselves in the mood for them. :)

Answer 9

My wife and I share p**n. Watching it or reading, looking at pictures, etc. together. So, if a couple shares that interest, no, that is not "cheating". It turns us on, and gets the sexual relations part going when we have time to play!

Answer 10

NO! And if anyone thinks it is then they need to deal with some serious self esteem and insecurity issues. Its harmless. unless its kiddie p**n then they just need beaten then dragged down a gravel road behind a truck then patch em up then repeat until bored then just shoot em.

Answer 11

i hope not

Answer 12

I don't view it as cheating if you only do it occasionally, like when they're not around.

If you're way too into p**n and would rather watch it than be with your significant other, than it's definitely some form of cheating.

Answer 13

i happen to dissagree with alot of the answers , cheating does not have to be physical , it can also be in the mind , and if alot of the ladies think its ok for a man to look at another woman with her clothes off , or having s*x to get them in the so called mood , well i guess you really think he is thinking  of  you while having s*x with you while or right after looking at it , but hey to each their own .

Answer 14

No but it can lead to many problems in the marriage if that's all one

person is concerned about.

Answer 15

no it is not cheating

Answer 16

Nope not cheating.

However it would seem some prudish people on answers think it is cheating.