Do you date just for the companionship?

Question

having a great figure, being so beautiful , being so intelligent is nothing, i mean even if you are this you would still be heartbroken, people could still cheat on you, it might even be better to be ugly and find another ugly person who cares for you in the end, someone who would tell you , you can do it.that is all that matters.i think that is what celebrities learn everyday.

Answer 1

Yeah I think it's natural for people to date for companionship. I think the companionship often turns to attraction to affection to love. Yes people will become attracted to others, even "ugly people" will. Two unattractive people can get together and be totally honest with eachother but will still probably be more attracted to some one who is better looking.

Answer 2

Ok, just to get this out in the open; if you have guy friends I am willing to bet that they are in love with you to some degree waiting to have their chance with you. Don't argue, that is how it is. But yes, it is really hard to be alone sometimess. This is why we usually have close knit families; because we are very social creatures. My friend was with someone, she worked on herself so much that she wouldn't even have time to talk to me and they still broke up; and she told me later that in her mind she was thinking "I look so beautiful and fit, why is this happening?".  It's about the individual you are and not what you look like that matters in the end, how comfortable you are in your own skin and how good you make the other person feel or how good of a person you make them want to be. For example, all my mother does it criticize my father; anytime he does something all you will hear from her is " you will never finish that!" etc. Really depressing don't you think? He would leave her but he's 49 and he doesn't want to be alone, I would hate that to be the only reason my husband is with me...

Answer 3

I do. My little guy gets lonely.

Answer 4

yea, sometimes i do.  it's just easier.  guy-friends are really nice to have, and if you're just friends, you don't have to worry about the complicated relationship stuff.  plus, sometimes friendship can turn into something better.  :)

Answer 5

well i am what i am...honey...no more no less...if they aren't then let it be then....it is just the right choice at the right time....at the right moment and if it hit you then...be thankful enough for the jackpot....