Do you ever feel repulsed by your body after you know who's touched it? ?

Question

Lately, i haven't been wanting to date for a long time. Maybe when i'm a senior in high school or something. And i think a lot of it is because of my ex-boyfriend. I thought i really loved him so when we would make out he would obviously, touch me. And not always sexually. But just knowing he had his hands on me makes me kind of sick. It's repulsive and he was too clingy and i regret ever going out with him. Does anyone else ever feel the same way? or when they were teenagers felt the same way?

Answer 1

Jenna,

I know what you mean. I had an experience where I felt ashamed and grossed out... but I realized, there is no point to feel that way.

What you need to realize is that all the experiences you have right now are going to make you who you become in the future.

And I hope that you remember the way you feel right now and when you get interested in boys in the future you remember to keep your head on straight and not give your body to any boy you think is cute.

s*x is beautiful and wonderful when shared with "the one". Not saying you have to remain a virgin forever, but at least wait until you are ready - even if you've already had s*x - just because you did it once doesn't mean you have to do it over and over with multiple partners.

If I could teach girls one thing it would be that s*x does NOT equal LOVE.

Most boys will have s*x with any girl - pretty/ugly, skinny/fat...

And once he ***'s that's it.

It doesn't mean he liked you, cared for you, thought you were pretty or will call you in the morning.

Also, a boy won't respect a s**t. He'll use her, and he'll have s*x with her, sometimes more than once, but he won't respect her, love her or be interested in a future with her.

Good luck!

Answer 2

It for sure sounds like you didn't have a good experience with him.  Its good you two are still not together.  You just have to keep in mind that you will probably date a few  guys that you will later regret. Don't be down on yourself and feel bad because you didn't like him. Its done and over, no need to feel repulsed anymore. Cheer up! :)

Answer 3

No, that's not normal.  I assume his touches were wanted (at the time) and if they weren't wanted then you should seek counseling.

Answer 4

nope. thats the upside of having very high self respect. very few people get to touch me.  

Answer 5

Of course your going to regret it,i regret ever having s*x because im only 16. But you have to understand that obviously at the time you thought differently, now that you dont have feelings for him whatsoever then of course your going to get disgusted lol

Answer 6

if i said yes id be lying.

ive always been picky about who touches me.

Answer 7

No really. I only let people whom I trust, and care for deeply, touch me in that way.

Answer 8

Jenna, this boy was not the one for you, how could you have convinced yourself you really loved him when you could not stand him touching you ?

Give yourself loads of time to get over this feeling.

Answer 9

I think its okay. I've felt like that at times..