Do you ever feel your Spouse married you only for your Mind?

Question

and it makes you think

what's wrong with my body?

Answer 1

then give head

Answer 2

My spouse obviously married me for my mind.  My wife's ex was in amazing shape (he worked at a health club), and  I am only average.  It's nice to know she sees through the physical,  and fell in love with my true self.   It's a nice thought... :)

Answer 3

Not sure there. I married for the b***s myself. I am all about the b***s. s***w the mind and all else. b***s baby!

Answer 4

ha ha too funny,  he loves you !!

Answer 5

No. It was a complete package. Sometimes I think he married me for the lovin but not really. You don't invest your life and time with just intellectual stimulation. Go get your hair done (Or do it yourself). Paint your finger and toe nails. Put on a nice outfit. That'll improve your self-esteem. If you have time and money, go to the spa. Good luck.  

Answer 6

I always wonder about this! But i guess it seems to keep us together somehow! Its what we still do, even before we got married.  We still do it with each other every single day-nonstop! Its far better to have a continous big happy smile on your face, on your kids face or on your husband's or wife's face- every single day, then what life in general throws at you daily!

Answer 7

If you are saying you are not getting any maybe he needs to see a doctor.

Answer 8

very funny

but my wife is smarter then me

Answer 9

Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha!

That's a good one -- and to answer your question:  No ... but you got me wondering now!

*still laughing!!*

Answer 10

Maybe he just has a very low s*x drive

Answer 11

Yes and the money i make.

Answer 12

I married my husband for his mind and he married me for mine. Our relationship is much better for it. Most people would be happier if they weren't so shallow and s*x obsessed.  

Answer 13

no...

Answer 14

Now really.....any man whose serious about entering into a relationship and especially for a protracted period of time (I avoid using 'life' as it seems that isn't the case here).

I think any man with intelligence would relish the thought of having a woman who can speak properly, do math, can read a ruler and basically engage in a conversation about most any topic and sustain that conversation as well.

As far as your body goes we all aren't perfect. To expect her to have a body like a 19 year old is just as unreasonable as to expect your husband to maintain the muscle tone of his youth. Just ain't going to happen and unless you have a plan to battle the forces of nature other than cosmetic surgery then expect things to change. After all...isn't that what candle lit bedrooms are for? With few exceptions everything looks absolutely great by candle light.

So in my opinion the man who seeks a Playboy bunny body versus a normal, standard one with a flaw or two that comes with intellect is a shallow person indeed.

Answer 15

I think she married me because she doesn't think I have a mind compared to her family.

Answer 16

Tuco would love for someone to love him for his mind and  not just his body.

Tuco feels like an object and needs to be loved from time to time.

Adios.

Answer 17

i like a guy who can give good mind.

Answer 18

No I don`t, I don`t have a mind...

Answer 19

my husband married me for my mind and my booty lol

Answer 20

She married me because I pursued her without end, and she thought that was pretty important.