Do you ever have some moments?

Question

that after those moments you just beat yourself up after it because you thing that person or people will keep that moment in there head each time you see them.

Answer 1

I still remember one incident from when I was 16!!! (A few minutes ago ;-) )

I just moved away to another city to avoid the embarrassment.

Answer 2

Yes everyone makes mistakes. So you made mistakes, so that peson made mistakes. You and that person both if you knew each other for a long time did things to each other, hurt each other, wronged each other. That is something to not worry about.  Now something to worry about is abuse. Never make abuse a light matter. Always report to someone.

Answer 3

hm...do you mean in order to remember how they have hurt you?  Basically, that just hurts you more and services no positive purpose.  It's better to let it go and decide to be yourself and happy.

Answer 4

of course, who doesn't? If it's something worth fixing i'd approach the person who i goofed in front of if not..i jus take it in stride and never let em see you sweat.

Answer 5

Yeah I do. But the thing is, the people who witnessed you being a goofball will most likely not even remember if the goofball moment was small. Think about it, do you play the moment in your head when you see someone who has acted insignificantly weird? Probably not. So don't bother beating yourself up because it only makes you depressed and feel like a total fool.

Answer 6

omg all the time! and then when i see that person i feel so embarrassed!

Answer 7

oh yeah

Answer 8

No, and you shouldn't either. Everyone makes mistakes and each and everyone of us is flawed.  People forget things faster than you would ever believe.  You walk around with a chip on your shoulder thinking about something that someone has probably already forgotten.  You need to learn to lighten up and love yourself a WHOLE lot more.  Love you, do you, be you.  You are going to go through the rest of your life making mistakes and feeling "silly" but it is only through those moments that you become the beautiful and wonderful individual you are. Beating yourself up is self defeating.  Loving and forgiving yourself is encouraging.  Out with the negative, in with the positive.  Love yourself more, forgive yourself more.

Peace & Love :)