Do you ever think you have "pick on me" written on your back?

Question

I feel that way. People are often quite rude, bossy and over-bearing with me. I am a nice person, although secretly I am fairly aggressive, but I keep it bottled up. Do I have "pick on me" written on my back? Do I look and act like a loser? DO I need to be more assertive? Am I just too nice?

Answer 1

ignore them, they probably think they're achieving something massive by concerning you. there is nothing wrong with the way you act, it's normal.

Answer 2

Even though I don't condone homosexuality, unless it interfers with your job the subject shouldn't even be brought up.  What you do outside your job is your business and no one else's.

You are only held accountable for what you do not what other people do.  If they are rude then they are the ones with the problem - not you.  Just be yourself, do the best you can do with your job.  Dress as you should in whatever your job position requires.  Silence is better than saying things that will cause even more trouble.  The tongue is the worst organ in the body because of the harm it can do.  Once something is said it can't be taken back.  Be friendly and stay away from those who are rude if you can.  If it gets to be too bad then you may have to put said person or persons in their place but if you can avoid it then do so.  You will be glad you did.

Answer 3

Wel it has happened and it is normally people who wants attention and the best way to get rid off them.. is to use physical force or something that would hurt them badly! then you will get peace and quiet because they'll know that they suffer when they mess with you... So go beat the S@#$ out of them! That'll teach them!!!

Answer 4

I don't think I have one of those signs on my back...I think mine says stay away or I may hurt you...the only people who are not afraid of me are my kids...and I'll be on the phone with some one important about bills or my ex and my kids keep making me laugh and I have to hang up...to other people I'm scary..it's for protection to my kids...we have fun and laugh all the time. Good luck and quit taking sh*t from people.

Answer 5

people probably feel threatend as your such a nice person, and they need to make themselfs feel realli good and by doing that they need to pick on you!! people are so R******D!!!

luv me

x*x

Answer 6

Been there. But I seem to have the "Do this for me" sticker on my back.I have personnel who are in management over me,yet they always expect me to show them how to do their work,and hint they want me to do it,then expect me to get MY assignment ready on time too.

But I don't . They suddenly get offended when I ask just how good were they at  d*** sucking to get the job in the first place. Learn your job.

Answer 7

All the time. Im always afriad that my "best friends" talk about me behind my back.