Do you ever want to rip out your hair cuz your so mad?

Question

How do you stop yourself from doing something stupid or how do you calm yourself down from a fight with your bf or gf so you can just stop fighting over something stupid? And please tell me how do you stop getting into stupid little fights that dont matter????

thxs- Sprinkles

Answer 1

no i get it cut at the salon

Answer 2

Hey..there is one kool proverb.."Most relationship falls not bcoz of the absence of love. Love is always present. Its just tht one loves too much & the other loves too many"......its very simple communication gap....misunderstanding...fear to loose some one...and insecurity leads to fights and its all creates problems in life....so we end up fighting and hurting our loved once....if you give room to your self and you loved ones then i guess you wont be having problems in life...if you respect each other decision and take the pain to understand why the other person had taken such kind of decision & if we make a point to talk and understand before reacting on our loved once decision i guess there wont be fights...we have to be crystal clear in our communication as much as u build trust in ur relationship it will be more happening....if we take care of thing that our loved once like and avoid things that they dont like....then there will be no reason to fight or rip out ur hairs...make a point to listen to what your loved once has to say...understand why he did what he did then react...but just dont forget no one is PERFECT & every coin has two sides....All the very best to you.

Answer 3

Tell them that you're going to have to agree to disagree on the matter at hand.  If you are too heated, tell them you love them, but you need a time out and go for a walk, take ur cell w/u, and call a friend to vent (someone who will just listen and tell you ur wonderful, helps), then come back when ur cooled down.  If you really love someone, never name call or use fowl language, u can't take it back!

Answer 4

you choose to be proactive and be more mature and try to solve issues before they become problems. if problems keep persisting then you know its time to get out of the relationship cuz its not working.  

Answer 5

What I do is I listen to music, somethin you enjoy to hear or it makes you happy evrytime you hear that song listen to it and think about the problem...if you relly love him or whatever then think is over reacting worth maybe losing him

Answer 6

the reason most fights start are misunderstandings. and a good way to calm down is to scream into a pillow. i do that when im mad =]