I have a co-worker who has a 4 year old kid. Today she was complaining about how her older daughter (I think like 14 or 15) didn't want to baby-sit. Her daughter's argument is that it wasn't HER decision for her mother to have a kid, and she has her own life, so why should she be forced to care for someone else's kid? It's their kids and their responsibility. She wouldn't even do it if they offered to pay her. So, they grounded her and pretty much force her. The other ladies agreed that was the right thing to do.
Not being a mom and not caring to get into an argument with a bunch of older ladies, I didn't say anything. But, in my own head, I was thinking about how I agree with the older daughter. It's not HER kid, nor was it HER decision to bring a baby into the house. Why should she be forced to watch him? It's one thing if she volunteers, but to make her?
I was just wondering what the rest of you moms or even older siblings though.
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