Do you feel like killing your dad when you heard your parents having s*x?

Question

can some1 tell me why i feel this

Answer 1

well no

i don't really know why you would feel like that.. but everyone has their reasons to do things

Answer 2

look up sigmund freud

Answer 3

Not really  

Answer 4

jcj

Answer 5

no. s*x between a married couple is natural and healthy.

if you feel this way , ask yourself why. is there somwthing deeper going on? have you seen your dad with another woman?? does he physically abuse her?? is he an alcoholic?? there a plenty of reasons this could happen. you aren't crazy. i would never feel that way, but my parents are loving and close to each other, i actually think it is great.

if you "literally" feel like killing him, then you need to go talk to someone and figure out why you feel this way. there is a reason. you need to stop it before you do something that will ruin the rest of your life. good luck!!!

Answer 6

i dont feel like killing him but i find it odd and gross

Answer 7

I couldn't help but giggle at this...Parents have s*x, as disturbing as it is, they do. Realizing it and getting over it is a part of growing up. Are you guys open enough to talk about it? Maybe telling them how you feel and your mother's reassurance that your father isn't hurting her will ease your aggravation. If nothing else, I bet it'll get them to shut up while doing the deed...lol.

Answer 8

Actually, your response is normal. Your Father probably is "in charge" and he should have more respect for both you and your Mother before exposing you to such activity. Child Protective Services would consider this sexual abuse as it is highly inappropriate, unacceptable and not to be tolerated. It will help to to talk to a counselor in private, perhaps, a school social worker,  if you are unable to confront your parents safely. Support may be available for you to stand up for your rights to be treated as a person with dignity. It makes no sense for all of you to be in bunk beds. I do think I would resort to sleeping on the floor in another room if necessary. Even a cot or padding would work, but you can gain a decent home life if you do not pretend this is okay. It sounds as if your anger prevents acceptance anyway. Some amount of anger is healthy but do not act impulsively or their Problem will truly have become yours. Best of luck to you and Congratulations on your recognition that this is not something you would do to your own children.  

Answer 9

one day i heard my parents and the next  morning i asked if they can keep it down when they have s*x.

Answer 10

umm cause you need help thats what parents do ! get over it try putting on some head phones so you dont have to hear it

Answer 11

I don't have any idea.  I remember think how gross.

Answer 12

Literally? No. If you are literally feeling that way, seek help.

Google up "Oedipus Complex" and you may understand that.

No boy wants to think of their mom as a sexual...woman. They are supposed to just be mom.  

Answer 13

I can understand if you are grossed out, or embaressed by it. But its a little strange that you want to kill him. Sleep with headphones on I guess.  

Answer 14

I guess kjcdbh42 has s*x so his/her son or daughter can hear, or will if he/she doesn't have any yet.

The first two answers are correct. It seems as if you have a certain perception of your mom and that was way to out of context. Please, if these urges get any stronger then you should tell a professional. If you do something in a moment of anger, you are going to live to regret. I am sure they didn't mean for you to hear it. Also understand that it's natural and that's how you came about. When you get older you'll understand (I assuming you're still a child). Forgive me if I am wrong.