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Do you feel sorry for this guy?

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the was a boy in my year at school and in year 10 he had his first kid then in year 11 he knocked up a year 9 (a 14 year old) and then the he got the the mother of his first kid knocked up again so hes 16 and has 3 kids and to top it all off hes a hardcore druggie. so do you feel sorry for him or do you think he has F***ed up his life?

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he made bad choices.

he probably had a bad upbringing, but there are people who survive that. he made the bad choices.
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I feel sorry for him, he is the product of his environment. he probably didnt know any better because he grew up with a family that didnt dicipline him or give him love and support. As a parent I will be teaching my son about protection during s*x.... I know I cant stop him having s*x but I am going to make sure he doesnt ruin his life or some girls life before it even begins.
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He just needs guidance. Sometimes drugs just consumes your life and you cant make conscience decisions.
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****** up his life and the girls's life.

i feel sorry for the girls tbh

he doesnt deserve to have those kids!

what a moron
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Yes, and yes. It seems entirely possible that he was lacking effective parenting. And, he has created some significant challenges for himself. I wonder if he has the maturity to treasure the gift of his 3 kids. I feel sorry for them, that they must grow up with such immature parents. I hope there are some grandparents who are stepping in, but based on the kids behavior, it seems possible that the grandparents may not be very effective at parenting. I wish the best for those little babies.
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h**l no i don't feel sorry for him. if he didn't learn to use a condom after the first time, that's his own d**n fault!
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He's a loser! If hes got 3 kids already,you'd think he'd know where they come from and how to prevent it.He needs to go to rehab if hes on drugs so he can be a better father to his kids.He's seriously gotta grow up!
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he needs counsiling. and i feel sorry for him because someone pust have steered him wrong.. and so now hes scard for life.
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No I dont feel sorry for him because he did it to himself, if he didnt learn the first time then its his ovvn stupidity to do it 2 more times!
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No.

I think that he screwed up the life of 3 kids who now have dumb teenage parents who don't know how to take care of themselves much less babies.
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not at all, he needs to wrap it befare he does anything and he needs to clean up his act and take care of his children.
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I think he's totally messed up...he's just in it for the s*x...irresponsible and immature, and stupid!!!!!
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No, and I don't feel sorry for the girls either. Its their fault just as much. Takes two to tango.
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messed up life....

if he was hurting so many people..most likely he has a messed up life..

when people have problems in there life they usally put it on other people because they think it will make them feel better..
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why should i feel sorry for his stupidity? i feel sorry for the kids he made and more then likely wont be taking care of, and sort of for the girls whos lives he messed up ( but they had a part in that too, so not very sorry) i feel he should be taken to the nearest vets office and neutered.
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he's f***ed up...pretty bad actually. that's just trashy and irresponsible. maybe he should try wearing protection once and a while or finding a girl closer to his own age. gross.
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He is a loser and he has really screwed up his life and the lives of those he impregnated. The only ones I feel sorry for are these children who didn't ask to be born. I hope their lives aren't as screwed up as this kids is.
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Okay, he made a mistake (knocking up his girlfriend)... but then he proceeded to make that same mistake TWICE more. Plus he's on drugs, which shows that he doesn't give a d**n about his children or the mothers of those children. I also doubt that he works to help pay for the children or is involved in any way in their lives... So in short, I think he's both an idiot for making the same mistake three times, and an a*****e for being so selfish.
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I have no sympathy for people who bring this upon themselves.
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Is it you? He could take protection when he was having s*x you know? and that drugs-things is his own fault and problem.

He must responsible for his own life!
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Nah I dont feel bad for that LOOSER, I feel bad for those poor kids, having such LOOSER Parents. We probably will end up paying for those kids thru our Welfare system.. the guy should be castrated and the girls should have their tubes tied. what a waste of DNA.

I dont mean to offend anyone but there are people like that that dont consider the sonsequenses of their actions and the damage to society that they are causing.

Sorry. My 2.5 cents.
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"Sorry"... doesn't even START to explain it.
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how has he been allowed the freedom to do this??? if this is real, which i question, after the first he should have had strict guidance.
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He should be steralised.
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Nope. That's what happens.

I feel bad for his kids though, they didn't ask to be born into this tragedy.
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Well, he needs a good job; that's for sure! Sounds like he needs to go to a drug prevention program and get his life straightened out. Oh yeah, he needs to be taken to church by someone.
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all i keep thinking is geez what an idiot.He did ruin his life and before he even had a chance to expirience life as an adult . I would think that after 1 pregnancy he would be smarter(and so would the girls) I guess you get what you deserve for being dumb and not using protection. Babies having babies its insane!
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I don't feel sorry for him....He should of kept his p****r in his pants. Or at least used a condom.

I do feel for these children of children, I certainly hope the teen mothers are more responsible than the father and they have supportive parent. Otherwise those babies don't have a chance.
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it think the guy didn't have much guidance when he was growing up, especially during his puberty, that is why he made some stupid decisions in his life, but its never too late to change for the good.. for the sake of himself especially to his family... just give the guy good guidance and a lot of love, nurture..
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where are this kids parents???

kids need guidance and knowledge; that is our responisibility as parents tp provide it, especially at that age. what about these girls? where are their parents?

man oh man....i fell sorry for everyone involved. its sad to know that innocent little babies were created in this mess....

there isomething wrong with alot of the people here...i think only one person besides myself actually said something useful other than hes a loser..or its his fault. WTF! the boy is 16 and needs some help...parents are the ones to blame..we are supposed to be the medium here. how are kids supposed to find diection when we have poeple with these kinds of responses to troubled situations and i bet some are parents of their own kids. alot of parents just don't care and thats where kids like this one here come from.
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I feel sorry for the kids he is bringing into this world!
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