Do you feel you should be disturbed if caught having s*x(teen) our if you catch your daughter (parents)?

Question

Teens:

If you are having s*x in your bed and your parents come home, would you rather them walk in your room and cause a circus or would you rather wait till you were done and then hear the wrath of god later when he left?

Parents:

If you came home and noticed your daughters bedroom was closed and heard inside she was having s*x, regardless if you knew she was active or not, would you barge in like world war three or would you leave it be and talk to her about it later and do things such as ground her for life or whatever?

Teens tell me how old you are and parents tell me how young do you feel is too young to find this acceptable.

Answer 1

im 15 ,

i would definitely want them to wait  until im finished.

it would be a mess if they went "bananas" at that moment in time

not to mention its embarrassing & most likely your not dressed so yeah. it would be kinda awkward

but knowing my mom she would go off that very moment lol

but of course i wouldnt have to worry about this cause haaha im not sexually active at this time .

yay me!

=]

Answer 2

I would like to be left alone, i am 15 have 2 babies and i have s*x all day long LOL just playing, when me and my husband do have s*x my parents dont care anymore. When my door is locked they just knock to see whats up if there is no answer they wait til we are done.

Answer 3

Okay, I'm a mom.  I definitely wouldn't walk into the room... that would be waaay too weird.  I'd probably make some kind of noise like shut a door really loud, so they'd know I was home.  I imagine that would put an end to the fun pretty quick, and that they'd be looking pretty guilty when they came out.

If it was my daughter's current boyfriend (whom I've known forever and is like my own son), I'd sit them down and have a nice little "chat" with them.  If it was some other guy who I didn't know that well, I'd wait till he left and then let her have it.

How young is too young?  Well, I'm not sure if you mean "too young to have s*x" or "too young to have s*x in your parents' house."  So I'll answer both:

I hope my daughter waits till she gets married.  But I'm not stupid... I know the chances are that she won't.  If she doesn't, I hope she wait until she's at least 18.  17 is borderline.  16 or younger is just way too young!  

But I don't think it's ever acceptable for kids to have s*x in their parents' house... unless they're married and are staying over for a visit.  And even then, I hope they'd be discrete about it.  Otherwise, it's just disrespectful.  But if they are going to have s*x while they're still living at home, I guess I'd rather have them do it there, than in the back seat of a car or out in the woods where someone could see them.  I still don't approve of it... but if they're gonna do it in my house, then they better make darn sure there's no chance I could walk in on them.

Oh, and by the way... if it was my husband who came home and heard them having s*x, the guy probably wouldn't make it out of the house alive.  =]

Answer 4

I would rather wait until I was done.

I think everybody would.

Answer 5

Leave until I was done.

Although I'm only fourteen, and it surely would never happen :)

Answer 6

I'd rather them NOT see a guy inside me O_o

I'm 16

Answer 7

im a teenager and if my parents caught me havin s*x with a girl my life would end. n if i got her pregnant? wow theyd send me off to my grandparents or sumthin  

Answer 8

as a parent i would have to say that if i came home and heard my kid having s*x then i would barge in and make them stop and they would definitely be in big trouble. i was a teen mom and i do not want any of my children going down the hard path that i had to go down.  

Answer 9

I would rather them tell me afterwords.

16

Answer 10

I'm 14... I would rather my parents came in after bc we're already doing it, so y should they catch us in the middle? might as well let us enjoy it and then get in trouble later...

Answer 11

O_O i would kill my parents if the walked in on me and my bf having s*x, but my moms like never home and i have no dad so i dont really need to worrie x]

Answer 12

Im 15 and Ive been had several girls brothers/fathers fined me in bed with there sister/child... and every time Ive had the c**p kicked out of me! So... i would say I rather that tell her later so i don't end up with a broken nose and 2 black eyes... if i fined a guy with my sister (or child maybe some day) I think I would stick a shot gun in there mouth and pull the trigger. (in other words i don't blame them for nearly beating me to death)

Answer 13

I'm 14 and I was having s*x with my BF on the couch.  He was standing behind me doing it that way.

We got so into it we didn't hear the car so my parents walked in on us.  I was shocked and my BF looked at them and said hi then kept on going.  

My dad is a really cool guy.  He started laughing and as he walked in the kitchen he said "Oh man, this is great.  You are like in sooo much trouble Ha Ha" and mom started screaming and freaking out.  So he stopped and left and I was.... well I am still grounded over the whole ordeal.

Moral of the story is if your BF is over, have enough sense to take it to the bedroom.

To answer your question, from personal experience, yes I would rather they wait till I am done.

Answer 14

lmao

we;d all prefer to be left alone i guess

but like lol my parents would be like

OMFG YOUNG LADY COME HERE RIGHT THIS ******** INSTANT!

Answer 15

I'm 15, and if I was having s*x I'm fairly certain my parents would wait till I was done. It wouldn't be an issue, though, because a) I'm not sexually active, and b) my mother says if I'm going to have s*x she's not going to stop me, she just wants me to tell her beforehand so that she can make sure I'm on birth control and I won't have to sneak around and feel guilty and be scared to tell her if I got pregnant or something.

Answer 16

i would like to be alone, but my mom would have made a HUGE SCENE!

Answer 17

I was a lucky teen in this regard. Similar to another answerer, my parents were VERY open with me about sexuality from a young age. They knew (and made sure I knew) that every choice has good and bad results, and that they'd rather I make the decision based on personal feelings/desire/whatever instead of putting myself at any risk by worrying about getting caught. They wanted me to be able to come to them if a mistake was made to solve the problem instead of worrying about judgement or punishment. So I had enough respect to time it right, and if there ever was a "came home early" incident, they took their time getting out of the car. It was never an issue, but if they had come in, they would have knocked or made some noise. Still would have been embarassing, though *oi.*

If I ever have children, I would love to raise them the same way. Make sure they are informed about the risks, make sure they are protecting themselves, and be open if they ever have a problem.

I think that the appropriate age varies from teen to teen. There are some people I knew at 15 that were more emotionally ready (smart enough to protect themselves, level-headed enough to make pretty good judgements) than many people I know now that I'm in my 20's.  

Answer 18

I woud want them to wait til im done b/c i dont think u reallly wanna see ur daugter in the all active or wahtever, though im sure she'd be pretty hot. lol jk.

Im 14, name's Aiden.

Answer 19

hi, i'm 15.

i would rather have my parents speak with me after the guy left, beause i wouldn't want there to be a huge scene. it would also be very emberassing for him, and i wouldn't want the poor guy to get the wrath and fury of my mother. lol.  

Answer 20

Wait untill i'm done.

Answer 21

I'd rather them leave me alone until I was done.

I'm 17.