Do you find this attractive?

Question

Ok,so i am an almost 18yo bi guy,light brown wavy hair,white,i play football,i go to the gym,i have a nice body (bubble butt too),i am artistic;i sing opera bass baritone,i am a born musician,i play guitar,i write darkish poetry,i like to read,i like to compose,i know how to draw portraits,i like painting,photography (i dont really practice it,but i would like to),cooking too and eating (i eat a lot),i like to go to the movies,specially to watch horror movies or action movies kinda tarantino's,i like romantic stuff,i like classical music,orchestral,opera,alternative rock,metal,hard rock,i amm kinda shy when i first meet someone but after that i start with my crazyness and sarcasm about certain things...i dont really laugh so much,but when i do,you realize i mean it seriously,oh,and i also like to sculpt things.......so,if you find these attractive,then why the heck i havent found anyone? i mean,im humble too,i dont like to be a show offy guy,and i have very deep conversations,i like to think a lot very deep....but i havent found a guy for me,i mean,ive met lots of them and i havent found a single one a lil' bit like me...what is wrong with me then?

http://www.myspace.com/alx_oceanborn90

Answer 1

Wow!  You sound almost exactly like I was when I was your age -- including the part about being a classical singer [which I'm doing professionally 29 years later], and the part about not having found love.

Dear, just keep being you.  Love usually comes when you least expect it -- that's an old saying, but it's very, very true.  Keep enjoying life, and keep doing the things that interest you.  Believe me, people around you are noticing and appreciating how varied and eclectic your interests and pursuits are, and they're finding you to be an interesting person for it.

Answer 2

I do find what you've written attractive, a bit busy though. You are only 18 and there is lots of time. Maybe you're too selective wanting someone like yourself? They say opposites attract. Think about looking for someone who has some of the same interests you have, possibly he may try to like some of yours he doesn't and you try to enjoy some of his you don't. You'll find someone I'm sure.

Answer 3

There is nothing wrong with you.  I wouldn't call you humble persay.  

Listing everything that you are good at, and things that challenge you leaves nothing to the imagination.  Part of the fun of meeting a person is to get to know them.  You list all the things you do and it seems almost show off-ish, and this may turn people off.

Be yourself, but don't list it.  You will find that person easier that way.

Answer 4

nothing is wrong w/ u (maybe ok, that song on ur myspace was a bit scary LOL j/k) but seriously, everything you mentioned was fine and all that, u just haven't met someone who you like or that can like you back.

i'm gonna be 19 in four days...i still havent met anyone either. (i did fall in love but he was straight...long story) <---which sucks by the way...

but yeah, i wouldnt fret about it. one day you will meet someone!  

Answer 5

You've hit a dry spell.  We all have'em.  You're also quite cute so it won't last long.

Answer 6

Your attributes are commendable. Your style is admirable. Why you can't find someone is probably due to the fact you might be too good to be true to some. Don't go looking, let it come looking for you. Your page is pretty awesome. I like your graphics. I could introduce you to many young men and women who would love to meet you. Don't sell yourself short, your time is near. Don't just get there, Arrive!

Answer 7

So are you homosexual or heterosexual?  

Answer 8

well you sound fine, many guys would be lucky... have you tried a matchmaking/online dating site? not one of those cheap text-your-name ones, but perhaps you'll meet someone of similar intrests close by. And good luck. ;)

Answer 9

Wow, I wish I was single and 18. Your gorgeous and interesting. I'm musical as well but, man, you do not want to hear me try to sing.

Give yourself time, as your environment changes you'll meet new people. And for goodness sakes, smile when you enter a room.  

Answer 10

If  you're bi, then why don't you try a girl?

Answer 11

same issue here,better leave it to destiny i guess,and hey u really look alot like ur avatar