Do you get annoyed with drooling waiters?

Question

It seems like when my friends and I go to lunch, if we get a male waiter, he tends to favor one of us, and really cater to the one girl. Then, the other girl seems to get ignored. Often, I seem to be the girl the waiter is making over. It's a little flattering, but mostly irratating. I hate for my friend to get second rate service. Today, the waiter thought my friend was hot (he actually had sweat running down his face and acted real nervous), and he barely looked at or spoke to me the whole time. Everytime the waiter came to the table, it was very awkward. Have you ever experienced this?

Answer 1

ok im a waitress if thats the experience you wanted.....maybe you are very attractive and you put this spell on men whenever they see you...or maybe your waiter was sweating because he was busy and it gets hot in there real fast from running around so much and maybe he was acting nervous because he was new or something not because your friend was so hot) the point is no waiter in their right mind is going to ignore anyone at your table because they want your tip..duh...maybe you are more vocal than your friends so the waiter looks at you when he comes to your table to see if you need something.. thinking that you will answer for everyone at your table or ask everyone at your table.or maybe you just put off this air of snobbiness and thats what was making him nervous....trust me if a waiter thinks your hot hes gonna go back in the kitchen and say check out the girl at table whatever the number is...and they will all walk by and look at you...but if you see a bunch of female servers walk by and look at you too its probably because your waiter went back and said god this girl at my table is so dumb and they were making fun of you in the back.....seriously, get over yourself

Answer 2

Yes!  Gosh it's so annoying.  What annoyed me more was one of my very flirtatious friends would use that to her advantage, and got away with a few free lunches.  There is nothing more irritating than that.

Answer 3

you came there to eat. why on earth are you even paying attention to your stupid waiter.

Answer 4

too bad you are not pretty and alluring like your friend. dine out with other plain mousey types such as yourself and be confident that no one is concerned with giving you the glance.

Answer 5

yes! it is very annoying. especially when they try to make funny jokes. all i asked was for you to bring me my food.