Do you get anoyed when your girlfriend/wife doesnt want to make love with you?

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Before answering please note:

* I do not take a view point; I ask this question for discussion from both point of views.

* This is not a problem I have, but is a topic I have an intrest in and ask these questiosn to find out your thoughts and experiences on the topic.

Guys do you ever get annoyed if your female partner is flirtatious with you, and gives hints, then decides they don’t want to make love to you – they just wanted to flirt? How do you deal with it?

Also, do you ever feel like the two of you only make love when she feels like it? For example, if you make a move, or really want it - you can’t get it... but if she makes a move or really wants it - she expects you to give it to her and gets it?

And if you always get rejected does that just make you feel incapable and mellow – how do you deal with it; that making love is in her control?

I know a lot of guys would give their girl some action (even if its not intercourse) if she wanted some but he didn’t... is this the same for you guys?

And; would your female partners do the same in return - I know this sounds very controversial so please don’t yell at me personally because my viewpoint sits on the middle of the fence - I’m just asking for open minded discussion: do you think a female in a relationship should please their male partner, even if they don't feel like it, because in relationships you have to give and take for your partner, everyone has needs and not supporting your partners needs is unhealthy for them and that effects the relationship... girls what do you think?

Answer 1

works both ways baby

Answer 2

yea

Answer 3

i will answer your question with a question, and then answer my own question:

what kind of guy wants to have s*x or get head or something from a girl who doesn't want to do it?

a douche bag kind of guy

Answer 4

well it depends, if shes a virgin and isnt ready id get upset if my boyfriend pressured me and got pissed off if i didnt. but say if you two have to often but only have it when she wants yeah that would be frustrating.

Answer 5

If she doesn't want to have s*x and you do, maybe it's time to move on to greener pastures.

Answer 6

So I must say that i have a relatuionshipo right now that is well more sexually actce when one or both of us are drinking. therefore when not drinking and having s*x is really emotional for me, sometime i am just too tired to deal with that, so guys should respect that.

Answer 7

We give them everything we can, why can't they provide for us?

So yes

Answer 8

heck yea they should give us love when we want it ...no offense girls but why do you get the decision?

Answer 9

you say that this is for "point of view" discussion?  i really think that you have some inner issues pertaining to your love-life. take a good hard look at your question.  i feel that it doesn't deserve any kind of answer.  talk to a specialist because you have other problems that you are masking in this question.

Answer 10

my woman dosent tell me no very often so i dont get too upset when she says no.  the best thing is that if shes not in the mood for a week or two she usually offers to help me out & who can ask for more?!!!!

Answer 11

Yes annoyed.

But let your gf go with this and she will use it as if she holds some power over you. And when power is involved its no relationship. Its negotiation.

Just try to control your emotions. Guys get annoyed and forget. Girls get insecure and feel rejected. In fact then guys hold more power. But are too blind to use it when they are being used.

So, if its always like that and she is in power, use yours. You have it too.

Answer 12

I would take note of the instance and plan revenge at the next availability.

Answer 13

Of course we ALL want to be pleased, and some women think only of themselves...though of course men can be worse, being man whores, thinking only of s*x.

But in my life, I try to make love to my fiancee whenever he really wants it, and in return he does the same. In a relationship, you have to give sometimes in order for things to run smoothly and to get what you want.