Do you get this at your house?

Question

I was watching the baby borrowers back when it was on tv, and shaking my head at the teenagers who were yelling at each other

Anyways, after that episode, I learned that its pretty common, but my parents have never yelled at each other, at least not at all that I've heard in my almost-17-years

Do your parents ever yell at each other?

Answer 1

All the time, you must live in a perfect family  

Answer 2

there is a distinction between disagreeing with one another and yelling (raising voice).  I'm 44 and I don't recall ever hearing my parents yell at each other (other than 'I can't hear you, I'm in the garage!!' or similar).  Now that I'm an adult, they confide that there were disagreements, but not really fights...they just waited until the kids were in bed to hash things over. guess it worked, they've been married 55 years this October

Answer 3

My parents yelled at each other every day.

Be very grateful that you are in a situation like that.

I hated being in my home and left when I was 14 years old and lived on my own by time I was barely 16.

I had always wished my parents would have divorced and my father would have taken me. I hate my mother to this day. My father is passed. He stayed with her till the end because he felt obligated to. I admire that, yet, it made my life miserable.

Thank God for your parents!

I am very happy for you! This is the way things should be.

If parent do have problems, they should not display them in a violent screaming manner in front of their children. They are the models for their children's future relationships. It is OK to have disagreements and it will teach their children how to handle them in their futures. The key is good communication.

My life partner and I never yell at each other

Answer 4

Mine argued and yelled at each-other. Then they got divorced. They still yet at eachother, just over the phone now.... Although my dad and his girl-friend (practicaly step-mom) don't yell, but they do argue...

Answer 5

Yea...course they do its so normal...coz like they dont always agree and its good to have different opinions. but really its normal and happens in all houses and if people say they dont there lyin a healthy realationship needs disagreements and arguements. no need 2 feel sori 4 us...its normal lmao xO

Answer 6

mine did before they got divorced

now they are both re-married and there is never any shouting at either family's house. Some people get on better than others.

Answer 7

yes sometimes

Answer 8

Yeah i watched that show...the reason they were yelling at each other was because they were just kids themselves and just could'nt handle the responsibility (through no fault of their own-raising kids is an adults job really). My parents argue occasionally but the have very stressful lifestyles and they rarely argue around us!.

Answer 9

Yes when I was growing up they sure did, and still do. And now that I'm married sure me and my spouse do it to.

Answer 10

My parents never yelled, if they were having an argument they would go into another room and whisper about it so that we would never hear them. My fiance's parents, on the other hand, yell at each other constantly throughout the day, and it was kind of awkward for me when we first started dating because they didn't care who was around. 25 years of screaming, hang-ups, and name calling. My fiance always thought it was normal, but now he realizes that it's really strange because I refused to yell back when he did, we talk now instead, like normal civilized people, and it definitely should be hidden from kids.

Answer 11

they problably do. just when you arent in the house because they dont want it to upset you.

Oh. yeah mine do

Answer 12

mine don't yell at each other like they do on the baby borrowers.  i'm sure they've had a few arguments in 20 years of marriage, but they've made up quickly cause i haven't witnessed a fight yet.  and i agree, i don't think that the kids should have to put up with that.

Answer 13

yupp

they argued soo much they recently split up, && they coodnt care less about me and my siblings, there not even together && their always still arguing about rubbish everytime they see eachother

Answer 14

They used too all the time growing up.

Answer 15

well they used to ALL the time.

but then they got divorced when i was about 7.

i can remember manymany screaming fights that would last for houuurs.

and even after they divorced anytime they would see eachother another fight would start. it suucked.

but now they have a really good relationship suprisingly, actually there out having a coffie right now lmao  

Answer 16

I thought every parents do?

Answer 17

I'm sure that your parents DID yell at each other. They were just good enough parents to not yell in fount of you.

Think about it. If you live with someone, even if you love them, you are going to get pissed at them, and yell.

My parents have yelled at each other. Been married for 20 years!

Answer 18

i thought all parents yell.

at least sometimes.

mine do.

Answer 19

All parents have probaly gotten in a fight, its just not always a yelling screaming fight.

but yeah my parents yelled at eachother wen i was younger thats why they got divorced

Answer 20

My parents not only yelled at each other, but beat each other up. They scream at eachother to this day (15 yrs)  I can't stand it. And when I ask them to stop, the both start screaming at me and tell me to shut up. it makes no sense.

Answer 21

i only have a mother. my father died when i was 10 months old and my mother said that she used to fight with my father a lot. my mother yells at her boyfriend but he doesn't yell back because he is too nice...well actually my mother yells at everyone so it doesn't really matter

Answer 22

Oh my mother and father fight like cats and dogs. I have never yelled at my mom, we might have a small argument (over the dumbest stuff) but it's usually resolved immediately.

As for my father, eh that's a different story. He fights, yells, screams, hits, punches. He does whatever he can. In fact, I'd be scared to find that the house was extremely quiet when BOTH of my parents were home, I'd be afraid one of them was dead......seriously.

I don't see that big of a problem with parents yelling at each other, because yelling is a way to get your point across to that person and you don't want to be nice and calm about it because you're so frustrated and overwhelmed. Trust me, I know because I've felt that way. And sometimes you can't help but have your emotions get the better of you. When I yell I'm just so emotional, hormonal, and overwhelmed with the situation I just yell. You get so caught up in the heat of the moment and at that moment, you don't want to calm down.

But I can see what you're trying to say. In my families case, they take it to the extreme, but there's not much you can do about it in my opinion.

If your family doesn't yell at each other or you don't have that problem, then that's pretty nice.

Answer 23

my parents are divorced and before they split they yelled a lot. they tried not to in front of my sister and me but we knew they did. some people aren't the yelling type so they don't yell though

Answer 24

No, my parents disagree a lot, but they don't yell.

Answer 25

my parents yell at each other all the time

Answer 26

my parents never yelled at each other, they are quite calm but are getting a divorce at the moment

Answer 27

well mine do all of the time and it make me feel like it was my fault and i do not like that a lot

Answer 28

yes they do but not very often

the thing that happens is that c'mon 2 ppl are living with each other since such a ling time so ofcource there can be many things in which their opinion is not same . . . .dude they are 2 SEPARATE ppl c'mon

Answer 29

ALL THE TIME. But they always make up.

Answer 30

yes all the time just my mom yells at my dad for no reason at all shes real childish

Answer 31

Yeah my parents used to yell at each other, and it used to really upset me when i was little.

but my dad got a job in another country and he came back yesterday for a couple of days and my mum has already started shouting at him and blaming him for things

But you just gotta put up with it