Do you guys come to parties and come home unhappy?

Question

I mean like you have fun at the parties, but I guess yo had higher expectiations and when they don't meet them, you get depressed I guess.

Have that ever happened to you, cause I was wondering am I the only one?

Answer 1

why do you keep asking this question?

Answer 2

im a girl but i always come home from parties unhappy,,

either becoz i did / said something wrong..

or

one time i got a stalker from a party.. for like 3 weeks.

but ive never gone to a party where things went great and i came home happy..d**n

Answer 3

YES YES YES.......... MANY TIMES...........

I AM WITH YOU..........

ACTUALLY WE HAVE TO CHANGE WE HAVE TO BE HAPPY FOR WT WE HAVE.........

WE WILL TRY OUR BEST DEAR...........

EXPECTATION WILL NEVER END......... I WILL TRY MY BEST..

Answer 4

actually that has happened to me not only with parties, but with other events as well.

concerts, hanging out with a new chick, trips...etc.

Answer 5

yes, but not for the same reason. I get depressed because i realized happiness is just a fleeting emotion and after the party you're back to the reality.

Answer 6

That's the problem with high expectations. I might sound pessimistic for this but, lower your standards. Then you won't be disappointed. Or you could always work on learning to deal with disappointment. That could help.  

Answer 7

Maybe you're looking for something more fulfilling that you won't find at a party?

Answer 8

Remember,   Alcohol is a DEPRESSANT..........  it will have this affect on many people..........  it's possible, you could have a disorder of some kind and alcohol only Intensifies the depressed feeling,  but yes, I've felt that way too,  as I'm Bi Polar and I rarely use alcohol, as my Manic Highs are So Much Better than any drug or alcohol!  You may want to get this checked out.   Having Bi Polar is not as bad as many think, I have a pretty good grasp on everything, but on occasion, I do go a little manic, but it's all good.  I know how to handle & control & deal with this.....  In A Very Good Way...  

Answer 9

yeah sumtimes u get excited for a party and it isnt as fun as u expected

so wat i do is i dont get excited so it'll be better lol

Answer 10

only if you dont give them what they ask for. ; )

Answer 11

that's strange. when i go to parties i come home extremely happy and i try to remember every bit of it... cos i don't go to parties that often so whenever i do, i cherish every moment...

maybe you're just sick of partying? if you do things you like a little bit too frequently, you'll get sick of it eventually.

try to slow down. maybe go out partying every fortnight instead of every weekend...  

Answer 12

No, I 'go' to parties and 'return home' unhappy ~ or happy.  It all depends.

Sash.