Do you guys ever feel the same way

Question

i sometimes feel like my parents like hurting my feelings on purpose and they all say im just too sensitive but i know im not it reallly hurts for a 15 yearold to hears things like this

like ill say mom i feel fat and shes like well you dont do anything about it and you just sit at home and feel sorry about yourself and thats not true at all she always complains how im neverhome and how we dont have any money to go any where and stuff and its not fair at all she always says how my life is so easy and hers wasnt but its not were just two different people and she just doesent get it at all

and my father well hes bi polar and a monster hes always accuseing meof having s*x or saying are you gona get pregnant like that girl on tv

but that factis im a virgin and i have marals and im waiting untill i know im ready and i know im no where near that i just dont get why they expect so little of me i mean i get really good grades and its my dream to become a trama surgeon but they all say its too much money and its alot of work but i know that and i am a really hard worker i just hate how im gona have to prove my self to them im sorry this is so long but i find it utterly embarrasing how i trust you guys with this other then my friends becaue i know that we all dont know eachother it just makes it all much easier for me ijust really wanted to know if anybody feels the same way or can relate to it in any way.i just want to know that im not alone in this

thanks for reading

and im not looking for rude and unneccssary comments so please dont bother just save it for someone else

Answer 1

I have a friend who talks about his parents all the time and it sounds a lot like this.  They get at him for different things obviously, like they call him g*y and tell him he may think he is special, but he is not.

Parents a lot of the times feel they need to win arguments with their child and much of the time it ends up escelating to trying to make the child feel small.  Parents also have a habit of blabbing on about how their kid is not doing enough (and I am sure they were not perfect themselves as kids)  DO NOT LET THEM HURT YOUR SELF ESTEEM!  If your dad says your S****y then you are probably hot, a good thing, but not if you have low self esteem, because guys like my friend Juan will take advantage of that.

Dont worry.  IT sounds like your parents opinions are unhelpful so dont ask.  When parents do this they need disciplining.  I gave my parents enough discipline and they stopped.

Answer 2

i feel the same way i thought i was like the only one  

Answer 3

Just be honest with them. Tell them that their remarks upset you. Parents should try and improve your self esteem, not just make you feel worse about yourself.

Answer 4

you know never let anybody tell you that you cant do something its all up to you dont pay attention to them follow your dreams your a smart young girl and an accomplish anything dont worry about how "expensive" it is that doesnt mean you cant go to school for it just keep your head up and stay thinkng the way you are  

Answer 5

im soory about your parents just ignore it and do nothing that can make them suspect stuff aboout u and if its exspensive keep ur grades up and even though ur 15 start looking into scholarships