Do you hate/reject a part of you ?

Question

and does it make you despise others who seem to fit the part of you you have rejected ?

I know that its really unhealthy to reject a part of yourself and think it is worthless. I have made myself think that if I reject my family and move out I will change, but in doing so I want to change myself because I don't like myself. How can I end this ? I know my ego gets something out of this because I think its making me a better person to reject certain aspects of my nature. I have got councelling but I still didn't give up trying to destroy parts of my personality. I suppose I will give it up when I realize its really selfish and pointless and that its actually a stupid thing to do.

Answer 1

i dont like my butt.....lol

Answer 2

I use to reject a part of my body because I thought they werent big enough.

After I learned to love them life has been so much better.

Answer 3

You should be your own person, not anybody elses, Because the  REAL YOU IS WHAT MAKES YOU YOU, I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL THOUGH BECAUSE WHEN I WAS 16, I NEVER FORGET IT, I ALWAYS WANTED TO BE LIKE MORE POPULAR THEN THE OTHER GIRLS THAT WERE POPULAR, AND WHEN I TRIED TO ACT LIKE THEM, A TEACHER CSAME TO ME AND SAID , THIS IS NOT YOU , AND TO ACT LIKE MYSELF, SOO I DID SOME STUDING, AND MY MOM TOLD ME IF YOU WANT TOO ACT LIKE SOMONE ACT LIKE YOUR HERO A STAR OR A ROCK STAR OR A FILM STAR, SOO I DID THAT, AND I WAS HATEFUL, PEOPLE HATED ME, THEN I REALIZED THAT MY TEACHER WAS RIGHT AFTER ALL, JUST BE YOURSELF

Answer 4

I don't hate my nature  - I was born with flaws.  Physically as well as mentally - because no one's perfect.  I can make myself a better person by unravelling what is nurtured into my character by my environment (family, friends, my country etc) and what is basic nature inherited in my character.  Then I work on removing the influences of that wrong nurturing to improve myself.  Like, just because my family act a certain way, I don't need to - and I can freely question why they think and act that way and decide it's not for me.  Likewise, I can take influences from life all around me that I like and practice that instead.  So long as I'm working on it and keeping it balanced in a way that I find comfortable for my own peace of mind,  I can accept that I'm a work in progress and not the end product of a lifetimes self development.    

Answer 5

I hate the part of me that keeps forgiving people after they have tryed to f my life more than once. I hate the ignorance...