Do you hate your own mother?

Question

I don't know why I hate my mom but she dosen't love me and she reacted like she dosen't love me and hate everything of me.

Answer 1

No I don't. In fact I love and respect my mom. She did a great job in taking care of us and the house and her 9 to 5 job as well. It is because of her that we were able to do higher education without any financial burden.

Answer 2

I don't have a mother. I wish i know what is like to have a mother with me. I am orphan btw.

Answer 3

Hate is too strong a word (Emotion) I don't feel anything for her. I don't wish her harm or illness. I just don't care.

Answer 4

ur mother doesn't hate u but u hate ur mother .Every mother try to maketheirr kids perfect human being .She is not hating u but she hate ur wrong ways of living.TRY to understand ur mother .

Answer 5

May be your mom is having a tough time these days.

She can't hate you.

Be there for her.

Try to communicate more.

People tend to understand each other better when they communicate.

Answer 6

It's possible that she has very stong love/hate feelings towards you.  The problem is - YOU can't fix or change those feelings, only she can and until she's ready to, she won't.

Spend some time at a local library or book store and browse through the self-help section.  There are lots of books about stuff like this and if nothing else, it'll help you to know that what you are feeling isn't just "you" - but others feel that way too.

I hope that you & your mom are just going through a phase, but even if that's all this is about, it doesn't discount what you're feeling and while I think the others who answered are trying to console you - some of them simply discounted your feelings rather than realized them for what they are.

If you decide to talk to someone about this, if you feel that they start to dismiss what you are saying, just end the conversation because you'll feel like you're beating your head against a wall if the other person won't engage in an actual conversation.  

Good Luck.

Answer 7

awww im sure she does to love u! sometimes parents arent always the best at showing their love, but they do love you. If she didnt love you, she would take care of u! she wouldnt even of stuck around.

U said she reacted like she desnt love you, n i assume u meant she over reacted with a punishment or something. But really, as backwards as it seems, when parents overreact, its becuz they love u a lot! they're worried about u and dont want nething to hapen, so they overreact sometimes. its silly, but its just how some parents r

n i dont hate my mom btw! shes not exactly the mother i needed, but shes the one i got and im greatful for her

Answer 8

are you sure?I will not use the word hate for my mom,cause she love me and care for me,if your mom hated you she will not bring you up and nature you to be someone,now if you say she don't like the things you do or find something wrong with your actions..then I would say she cares, only tired of trying with you..and you not getting her as a person..or maybe she wants too much from you..I don't think you hate your mother,you just want her to notice,and appricate you and the things you do as a person and child..you want her to say good job..but some moms don't,why I can't say..when I go for my kids at school I hug them and kiss them so much,and the other parents just give their kids a pat or a kis on the cheek,some of them don't do anything...now that does not say they do not love their kids just like me...it is just they are different..maybe your mom is different..I think she loves you but you are looking too hard...try again with your mom and let me know what happens...good luck  

Answer 9

I love my mom very much. We are like friends now that I'm an adult. We have always gotten along well. We are always there for each other and I can't even imagine not having her around.

Maybe she's having a rough time right now or something.