Hi all,
I felt absolutely miserable. I am getting marry in 7 months, my fiance recently moved in with me and my family. The house we lived in is half my sis and I AND we also have a land together but we are not planing to build anything as yet.
My fiance work 2 jobs and recently he having problem with my family and the way "we live", he tried very hard to adapt but failed and he end up pick on me to release, we end up fight and I cant help it I always protected my family.
Now he wants to move out, but with so much debt I have on hand and a wedding on the way, I can't afford to do anything with him now. I would love to do something about it.and I tried to squeezed to make the problem as small as possible
i.e my family work most weekend, they have weekday off ( like their weekend). On their night off they watch movie with very high volume. My fiance on the other hand start work at 4am so he can't sleep...he got frustrated, unhappy etc.. I have asked my family to turn it down but it just still loud.
I felt stuck because i felt like I asked too much from family becoz this was not an issue before, until my fiance moved in
But I felt sorry for my fiance have to work early...
Little thing like this is for something else as well... I just felt trap in the middle and I donno what to do. I know I can't please everyone.
He now wanted to move out, but we cant afford to... if this keep going soon i think they will hate each other... i don't want to see that. i love my family and I love him too...
please help me...I know I can do something but at the same time, I felt that I am too weak to protect anyone...
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