Do you have a bf/gf whom you don't really have feelings for but they have feelings for you?

Question

well maybe at the start of the relationship.

Answer 1

Yeah that happened to me before. I started going out with this guy who I liked as a friend, but romantically...nah. Only a month into the relationship did I start seeing him differently, probably because I got to know him a lot better. We were together for 8 months, and we only broke up because he moved. We keep in touch though, and are still good friends. Anyway, just get to know the other person really well, and if you still just don't have those feelings, then let them know early on so the relationship doesn't progress too far, making it harder to end.  

Answer 2

at the beginning yes because you are just getting to know each other give it a few weeks and if you fell the same way after getting to know them then you know it wont work out most likely

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Answer 3

Not at the start of the relationship, but that's how all of my previous relationships have ended.  If there's no interest, there's no interest.  Why are you seeing the person if you don't have feelings for her/him?  You need to end the relationship so that you can find someone you have feelings for and so she/he had find someone who genuinely cares for her/him too.  It's not fair for either person right now.

Answer 4

well me and my present fiance started just going out for a lunnch and etc.. and honestly i only respected him but he really really liked me. so after he started calling me everyday, would listen to me untill i would get tired of talking. would come visit me at least every week even thou he lives in another city. and so on and on, and after a month or so i could say i started lookin at him differently. and now its going to be a year on september 15th. and we r getting married next year in summer =) and i deeply am in love with him. but yes, thats what happened with me when he had deeper feelings for me at the begining..

Answer 5

I did...I liked my bf's personality, so I accepted the date...but after a month, I realized that I really liked him more as a friend...so, after 3 hours of very diplomatic and solid discussion, I convinced him that it couldn't work. We're just friends now, and I'm SUPER happy because after a couple months he moved on and got another gf.

Just be really solid in your resolve (if your the breaker-upper)...he'll/she'll probably try to convince you that he/she can make it work...my ex did, hence the reason it took three hours T_T, lol