Do you have any tips on how to make my sexual relationship with hubby better?

Question

Hello! My hubby and I have been trying to have a baby for a few years now but we have a problem. He is not very romantic and my s*x drive is low.I was wondering if anyone had tips on how to make me want to have s*x more. I love my husband so please don't get me wrong there. I would really appreciate any tips that you might have. Thanks.

Answer 1

Watch some blue movies. doesn't have to be p**n but something raunchy to get the juices flowing.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Good news!!!  There are libido stimulators for women too.  You can either go to your doctor, or to a reputable health food and nutrition store for information.

You should also, try to help your hubby to understand your needs, as this non romantic stuff will get old in years to come, and you will start to feel empty, neglected, and taken for granted.

I would suggest that you try to resolve that problem first before trying to have a child.  if it arises later, as I Know from experience it will, you do not want the child to be hurt by a divorce!!

Answer 4

Whatever turns you on, act on it or try to have him act on it.  When he does something that does turn you on, tell him how much you like that, stress it.  They have no clue unless we tell them.  As much as we want them to read our minds they just can't.

Answer 5

Well it's normal to not have a s*x drive while pregnant. It really is different with everyone. Who knows if after you will regain it back. It could be months, even years. I was in your situation with a no s*x drive and it's not pleasant. I tried dieting and exercising but it didn't do anything. Until I tried this natural herbal enhancer which is meant to increase the s*x drive along with other things I've noticed. It's a topical oil called Hersolution Gel which is like an instant libido boost. Along with that my sensations are just blasting and my orgasms are then best. Read up about it at herenhancement.com where I saved on it at the time. It got better with every application. I was skeptical at first but the companies return policy made me commit. From what I remember you have to try out for a couple months but then after that you can return it if it doesn't work. It would work great for your situation considering your pregnant and theres no need to swallow anything. Well good luck and I hope this helps.

Answer 6

you love him but are you attracted to him?  arrange alone time and then you need to focus on what physical characteristic turns you on.  If nothing then that's your problem

Answer 7

I feel like I'm in the same situation sometimes. I would go into an adult shop and pick out some stuff for the both of you to use on each other :)

Answer 8

Foreplay moves your s*x drive UP! Even if he doesn't want to be romantic...have him touch you in places that feel good, not just the main areas...teach him where you like it so that in the future he KNOWS where to get you started. TALK to each other about what turns you BOTH on...touch him too so he doesn't feel like he's the only one doing the work. Also try different positions even if they are awkward the first time, find where it feels good so that the next time you get intimate you can anticipate the way its going to feel instead of dreading the constant same movements.

Answer 9

Foreplay before s*x is good.

Dress very s**y and make him want you.

sorry that is all i got for now.

Answer 10

I'm a passion party consultant ... I come across a lot of women on a weekly basis and I hear this all the time. I think a lot of women have this problem. You need to spark things up a bit. My personal opinion s*x gets boring if you don't do different things. Check out my website and let me know if I can help you in anyway. www.passionpartiesbystephanie.com.