Do you have control issues?

Question

Almost every boyfriend I've loved in the past had some major control issues and I'm not sure whether that says something about them or about me...

Answer 1

The reason you're not sure about who it says something about, is that there is no absolute answer. Everyone is different. Sure, most of the men you CHOOSE might tend to be control freaks, or maybe it's your behavior that draws that impulse out of them. There would logically be no way for us to know unless we actually knew you or knew them.

Answer 2

I find that a lot of guys have control issues. This is one thing that really bothers me about guys and one of the reasons why I lean towards girls more.