Do you honestly believe your teenager does not have s*x?

Question

Do you believe them that they aren;t or haven't had s*x?

I am just wondering because i was so blunt about this stuff with my mom. I would tell her everything, did not lie about it but my sisters would and she really believed they hadn't done anything when they had so do you believe your teenager -boy or girl when they say they do not have s*x?

Answer 1

I haven't asked my son about his s*x life - that's his own private business.  I wouldn't dream of prying like that!  

My son is 17 and mature for his age - he is about to become an adult.  His s*x life is his business.  He has been given all the information he needs to make an informed choice.  He also knows he can talk to me about anything and everything if he chooses to do so.  He's intelligent and I have always treated him as a person in his own right.  He's now old enough to make his own decisions and if he wants help with those decisions, then he knows he can turn to me.

Answer 2

As a fifteen year old myself, my mother knows I don't have s*x. First of all, where would I go if I even wanted to have s*x? I can't drive and to be honest I'd rather try and pull an all nighter putting in a chapter or three in my book that I'm trying so hard to get published.

But, if I were to have s*x, most likely my mom would know. Our relationship as a mother and daughter is very open, she was always very open with me as a child and she let me know that I can talk to her about anything and that she wouldn't judge me. She may not give me the advice I wanted to hear (but I was very thankful because I needed that advice) but she always let me know that I'm very loved.

Now if I started to have s*x, she would want to put me on the pill and you know made sure I had protection. She'd also want to make sure the guy didn't have any nasty STD's on him or any AIDS or anything so he would be tested before anything can happen.

Today I'm still a virgin, but I know that if I wanted to go out and have a bunch of mindless s*x and s***w around like a rabbit - I certainly could - with all the protection necessary of course.

But I don't feel like it - I'm too lazy right now and my biggest concerns are becoming and author.  

Answer 3

That depends on if that teenager is a liar or not

like i would say that i don't have s*x and they would believe in me so they might believe you if you are honest!!

Answer 4

I believe that kids are having s*x earlier and earlier.

I am a mother and I know that when my daughter gets to the stage in her life when she wants to have s*x for the first time, I would rather her be able to tell me about it so I can atleast get her on a pill and explain things to her, rather then have her pregnant at a really young age...

I know growing up my mum didn't know that I had s*x ( there was alot she didnt know)  

Answer 5

I'm a 17 year old myself and i preferred not to tell my parents about my s*x life you have to remember what it is like for most teenagers, its really embarrassing to bring up the subject. There is no easy way of doing it except being blunt about it, however i would suggest that all parents approach children at a younger age ,13 maybe... peer pressure forced many of my friends into sexual activities at a young age. I'm glad i waiting until i was 17 but everyone is different. Just don't treat them different if they are ♥.

Answer 6

My daughter is 17 and she's a virgin - she and I have a very open, candid relationship and I trust her word.

I'd like to know that if she IS having s*x, that she's being smart with condoms, foam and being on the pill.  That's all I'd want to know.