Do you keep secrets from your spouse?

Question

If so, why? What kind of secrets?

Answer 1

No secrets always have a way of revealing themselves.

Answer 2

No

Answer 3

i have kept some secrets, ones which i know d**n well will cause a massive arguement no matter how silly they may be (no not cheating ones, dont believe in that).

I then confess to the easier secrets by catching my hubby in a good lovable mood.

Answer 4

H e l l  yeah!

Answer 5

my aunts husband tried 2 keep a secret 4m her and i told her a week later.......now they arent 2gether  anymore =[

its best not 2 keep secrets

Answer 6

I try to keep his Christmas presents a secret but he always finds out what they are!  Other than that NO!

Answer 7

No!!!!

Secrets are not good in a relationship.

Answer 8

no... but he doesn't tell me everything about himself... and he calims i keep him out of the loop.... i'm the one left out of the loop....

Answer 9

No. You can't if you want to stay married.  

Answer 10

No but he keeps several from me.  

Answer 11

well since we are spliting up yes i do ,

how i opened my own banking acct and have been hiding money in it

changing things into my name ,

so  when he goes to do all this oh well its too late, sorry  

Answer 12

Everyone keeps secrets. I don't care who you are, everyone keeps them. Some secrets are good and some are bad, but we all keep some.

Answer 13

In the beginning of our marriage I didn't. I always spilled the beans. But now things are getting kind of rough and he's not who he was when we first got married I do. Like I have a dream/fantasy about a co-worker. This dream was so bad I am glad that my hubby worked the night shift. I am pretty sure I was talkin' and tossin & turnin'. Obviously I wouldn't tell him it's just between me and the bed that I slept on. I personally don't think it was wrong because my dreams are out of my control and I am not going to act upon it but h**l it happened and I LOVED IT. If only I can have a dream like that with my hubby!

Answer 14

It's been five years and no secrets so far. He is my best friend, and I probably tell him a lot more about me than he needs to know! :)

Answer 15

even though married every spouse has something private and personal which she or he wd not like to share with each other

Answer 16

Yes, the kind i dont want him to know about!

Answer 17

Sometimes when you tell a person everything and you and that person get upset with each other,they have the nerve to throw it back in your face.So things are better left unsaid.If the secret is like infidelity those things come out in end anyway.

Answer 18

No. I don't believe in having secrets with your spouse. I tell my husband everything, he does with me. The only secrets we have are what we are getting each other for Christmas.

Answer 19

Of course. She reacts unpredictably.