Do you let ppl know when they are impolite?

Question

Do you pretend that it's OK? or do you silently avoid those ppl? or do you say what you think and take the risk of ending up as enemies?

If you confront ppl when they are rude, do you confront those whom you like? or those whom you dislike? or all?

Answer 1

Yes, I have said, "you are rude" and they stop. It's pretty embarrassing to have someone tell you that you are rude.

Answer 2

If they are a friend, then I will on the spot. But if its like, some guy cut in front of the line in the grocery store then I would let that go.

Answer 3

It depends.  If I know I can kick their a$$, then I have no problem stepping into their face and putting them in their place.

Answer 4

Sometimes I tell people, sometimes they just know by the way I look at them. I will only usually say something if they are rude to me personally or my family. Otherwise, I let people do what they want and it is up to the other person to say something. I will however step in if I see someone being bullied, child or adult.

As far as my friends go. I have known them all long enough to know their attitudes and we take nothing personally.

New friends I make, I tend to stay shy a bit of a lot of conversations. Mainly becuase I am a very private person. If I catch them being rude then I will be like "Dude, that was like wrong!" ... and we all just sort of laugh a bit and then just move on. If it becomes a problem then I would not be their friend anymore.

Answer 5

people will walk away from them and they will begin to realise it themselves that something is wrong with them .

but u don't tell them that their rude , because you are doind that yourself!

Answer 6

silently avoid

Answer 7

If anyone is not polite to me I let them know in a diplomatic way, not being insulting just saying exactly how I feel about what has just been said. If they don't like it then tough they shouldn't be so rude and I don't feel I have lost anything by telling them.

Answer 8

i ave no problem being enimes with someone rude! thats why i let them know what i think!