Do you lie in your relationship a lot?

Question

I have been lying so much, but it is the only way to not hurt him. I told him that I am going away for a while and that I wont be able to contact him in a long time. I just don't want to be in a relationship right now. He is so sensitive but I cant tell him the truth. We have only been together for two months but I feel like we have been together longer. I just don't want to be in a relationship.

Answer 1

If you don't want to be in a relationship, just tell him. It will be better for him to know the truth than to make him live through this lie and believe you feel the same way about him. I'm not saying it will be easy to tell him, but you really should be honest with him.

Answer 2

You should tell him that, He may be hurt at first, but it'll make him stronger in the end..and it's way better than lying and keeping his hopes up.

The right time to be in a relationship is when you feel you are ready..and you should say that too!

I don't lie in relationships..The truth does hurt- but it is the right thing to do..I wish you the best of luck in this situation!

Answer 3

Sometimes I feel like it's necessary for me to lie...but it's not a healthy thing to do, eventually we'll get caught in our web of lies. It's always best to be upfront and honest, even if the truth hurts.  

Answer 4

tell him while ur calm, cause if u continue he will make u so pi-st of in the future with wanting 2 do with u every time that u will break it 2 him the hard way, and that will make it worse, at least at the beginning u can handle ur situation and temper

Answer 5

To answer your question no I do not lie in my relationship at all. I am always honest with her because I love her. Trust me in this it hurts more being lied to than having some one tell you the truth, even if they are being told something that will hurt them.