Do you love the soul of a person?

Question

How do you know that your love is not just self interest, instinct, desire, dependency, selfishness, laziness, loneliness etc.

What makes you knowing about the purity of your love?

Answer 1

before loving you have to recognise the soul of a person...

which requires a soulful eyes... when your bosom starts fluttering with its winged motions and u feel ur own soul somewhere around u ....tht is the time u feel real love with the purity of heart.... or love of souls...

it is always free of any other selfish interest.... only one interest remains ....to sit and talk for a while with ur soulmate...

or a mere glimpse ....

or just a thought ....

Answer 2

its a difficult question!

human nature is to be biased and unknowingly he or she makes decisions that are biased ..

may be first love grows and nurture with self interest and need 4 the emotions, but when the plant grows it need no support .

same is wd love after sometime it is free 4m all -"self interest, instinct, desire, dependency, selfishness, laziness, loneliness etc."

AND BECOMES PURE"

we can take up the eg of love b/w parents and children ..

Answer 3

If/when you love a person then you love the soul of the person.

The soul of a person IS the person.  What's in your soul will show in your face and every action you commit.

Answer 4

When you don't have to pretend no more..........

Acting like we know what love is!!

Answer 5

I know i love the soul of a person when i know that by loving them i don't gain anything...like i know i loved my ex's soul because even when he was the biggest a**hole at the end of our relationship i still loved him and still love him today for no apparent reason

Answer 6

Your love WILL ALWAYS be a blend of all of those things - for that is the human condition.

And when you really think about it, the distance between yourself and your lover is immeasurable.  Love is an attempt to hide from ourselves the fact that we are truly, and utterly alone.

But hey, it's fun too.