Do you mind when your friends ask alot of personal questions?

Question

Most of my female friends always ask me finance questions like how much i have in the bank, where do i get money from since i dont work at the moment, how can i afford nice clothes...and list goes on. I personaly wouldnt ask some one questions like this its none of my business and does not concern me.....

does anyone mind questions like this? or is it just me being too fussy?

Answer 1

Not really. It doesn't bother me.

Answer 2

Yes , I mind these questions .

It depends how storng is your friendship with the person asking you .

You can only allow these questions to your family , girlfriend or wife ....

Answer 3

I feel ya! I'm a private person and don't want ppl diggin into my life. I don't do it to them, not unless they want me to. and sometimes not even then. I think it's rude to ask someone about their finances, unless they are obviously in poor health and needing help. But other than that, it's not cool. It's too invasive.  

Answer 4

i usually tell everything to my best friend and nobody else so it's none of their business to ask such things

Answer 5

No, you're not being "fussy," they're being rude. How much money you have is no one else's business. I'd be offended too.

Not even my partner knows how much money I have in my personal bank account.

Answer 6

my friends know everything about me.. so there's really no reason for any personal questions.

: )

Answer 7

It depends how much i trust the person. If its just someone i just met then i would tell them to mind their own business. But my close friends i tell them almost everything, but there's always a barrier that they never cross.

Answer 8

to protect your secrets and your friendship you can give them fake answers like i dont know. my father sends me the money and i dont know how much i have or what ever..

by the way.. how much do you have? in your bank?

ha ha (kidding)

Answer 9

i think i'd find it a bit invasive if they asked me about finance, if you do too then next time they bring it up, gently say that you feel a bit uncomfortable asking these questions as you wouldn't ask questions like this yourself. be firm but gentle as you don't want to loose the friends

i think i don't mind personal questions when it's girly chit chat about boys and s*x and things, but if they started to ask about my family life and finance i would find it intrusive and probably ask them to stop

Answer 10

my friends constantly ask how I have the stuff I have because my dad's job isn't like paid a £100 an hour but he does get a resonable amount of money. My dad just gives my nice stuff coz he's apologuizing for not spending time with me, sending me to boarding school, going crazy after seeing me kiss my boyfriend and stupid stuff like that. It doesn't bother me when my friends ask coz were close but if it bothers you then TELL THEM. they probably don't notice how they are making you feel and will stop.