Do you move on? Or are you happy to stay in a relationship just like friends? ?

Question

I have been in a few longterm relationships. Im currently in one now. It seems that in all of my relationships it has ended up like being friends or flat mates. Is this what happens in all relationships? So usually I end up getting bored and feeling the urge to go to pastures new. I would be interested also in seeing how other women deal with this. Do they move on? Or are they happy to stay in a relationship just like friends?

Answer 1

Being friends an important part of any relationship. You have to find the  happy medium , when to be a spouse, when to be a friend. Moving on all the time will get you in the same cycle, repeating over and over again, all the while gaining a reputation that you don`t want to have. Eventually it`s a good idea to settle down, otherwise you wind up old and alone, no one will want you with a promiscuous past.

Answer 2

i better ask myself if i have a problem to feel such feeling while i am with him. what i mean is remember those beginning days and if those days need to be refreshed from your side be the first to fix it, if the problem is from the reverse side you reminde him to refresh those days. i dont think it is good idea to see other b/c others do also may feel the same when the times.

Answer 3

i'm not sure how you mean? like 'just friends'; are you refurring to not having s*x, not kissing and that? i'm confused.

if you're not happy with your relationship then it's only you that can decide what to do and how you want to handle it; either try and solve things or move on.

i live with one of my ex's and that ended cos i felt like it wasn't going anywhere as we seen each other morning, day and night and it just didn't feel like a relationship at all as it was the same all the time so maybe you can try and not see him as much and then you two will both treasure the times you have together :) i've been in two long distant relationships and they were so much better as i loved the times i was with him and all the time i waited for cuddles and kisses just made it so much better.

speak to your boyfriend first and you both need to decide what is going to happen so no-one gets hurt :)

hope it all works out.

Answer 4

I'm an old married woman now, but I was never, ever able to stay friends with any ex.  All the relationships seemed to end badly or very badly