Do you need challenges in life to be a happier person?

Question

A few weeks ago, I had our baby and when I'm emotionally and physically ready, I'm planning on going back to work. I love my baby but I want to work as well. Anyway, I told my husband, I actually prefer giving thing to do and take care of financially, like certain expenses I want to be the main one to take care of as a way of contributing. I like challenges when it comes to things like this instead of forking over the money and saying "here" pretty much. I guess handling some of it makes me feel better about myself and more important. No joke. And- of course I would never leave out the house work and being a mom either. :) So, do you all like having certain duties to take care of?

Answer 1

I felt the same way after the births of both of my children.  I think being able to challenge yourself and set goals gives you a sense of accomplishment, especially as a parent.  I feel that gives you a sense of security that you are doing everything you can to better yourself and the lives of your children.  It gives you something to strive for and be proud of at the end of the day.

Answer 2

no I had enough challenges already

Answer 3

yeah, because when you do it right it makes you feel good about yourself.