Do you need validation to make you feel as if your sign is strong?

Question

I'm seeing so many questions about who is strongest and who would win a fight.

One person who is a Cancer asked a question and she said Cancer is the strongest and would win fights. Which answer did she choose? The first person who said Cancer would win.

Another person said that Scorpios are the strongest and they will win any argument or fight against another sign. Whose answer got best? The persons who said of course it is Scorpio.

And so on. I've seen another about Pisces being the sexiest or something. I have a pretty good idea of what answer will get best answer.

I don't care about best answer. I am not a top contributor and don't plan to be. I'm just wondering what type of weak person needs the validation of hearing that his or her sign could win a fist fight or an argument?

Opinions? Thoughts? What chart aspects could cause this neediness for support from maybe 7 persons who answer?

Answer 1

I really hate those questions. A while back someone asked who is the dumbest or ugliest or smartest sign! (roll eyes) I think people are just bored and want to ask dumb questions, and some people want points so they answers.

No I guess because I study astrology and other things of that nature I know that there is more to a person than just their sun sign so I just ignore those questions for the most part.  

Answer 2

Pisces' are the sexiest, not that it really matters. Everyone is given the qualities dealt. In astrology your stuck being what your sign is.

And,

Its the competition drive to be better, we all have it. It's the inflation of the ego. We like to shine.

No one want's to be told they are weak, and dumb, they want to feel better about themselfs, some, espically pisces, aries, and cancer, need to prove it.

Answer 3

i am no best at anything ,i am only the best i can be,

Answer 4

Im an Aries  . . . And I have to admit that I crave Validation , Especially from Men. I have to feel that Im the Smartest, toughest, sexiest and prettiest Girl and I need this validation from men. I guess it's because Im a fire sign and Fire signs tend to be competitive. This explains why I dont have too many female friends. My Only (true) friend is A Sagittarius and shes just like me: Very Competitive and craves validation from men.

Answer 5

What a good response. d**n, you know I think everyone at times needs validation on anything personal to them... even astrology, hehe.  I think those types of questions hold no substance or logic and they are just pretty much people looking for others to view their way of thinking.  But yes, you took the words out of my head for quite some time now.  I'm guilty of it too so I'm not pointing fingers.  Seriously, each sign has it's strengths and weaknesses and generalizing just a star sign (not even considering the individual's natal chart) is absolutely absurd.   Those types of questions are just for some fun and a little bit of drama.  

Answer 6

Great question. I don't seek validation in an astrology forum, but I sometimes do in other areas of my life. Not very often though. I'm not sure why some people would need such validation, but it would stem in a problem with insecurity and self-esteem.

I'm wondering about whether we could pinpoint such an aspect or aspects? I definitely would not point to one particular sign or aspect.

Also, you might want to search Yahoo Answers? I think I recall some topics involving low self-esteem giving rise to a need for attention and melodrama.