What do you think about opening presents at a child's birthday party?
My husband and I have decided to do it afterwards when we are back at home or after everyone has left. We always get a few surprised reactions about not opening gifts during the party. We never request gifts for our children's birthdays, so we don't want anyone who did not bring a gift to feel bad should we open them during the party. Also we don't want it to turn into a competition about who brought the best and most expensive gift.
I understand that some people want to see our children's faces when they open their gifts, but I always help them write thank you cards for each gift that was given, as well as cards for those that attended and didn't give a gift.
We also don't want our children to feel that people have to give them something on their birthdays. It's enough that guests take the time to come to their celebration.
I suppose I feel a bit of pressure from people who insist that we open their gift during the party.
So what is your take on opening gifts during a child's birthday party?
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