Do you really believe it is possible to love someone, but not like them? ?

Question

Do you really believe it is possible to love someone, but not like them? ?

Answer 1

Yes

Answer 2

Definitely. You can still love someone even though they may treat you like c**p, look at all the women that stay with abusive husbands/boyfriends. The feeling of love sticks around for a while, even after a nasty break up/divorce. I still love my ex, even though he is a prick half of the time.  

Answer 3

Yes, i believe it is possible. You can love someone with all your heart but not like the way they act or their personaltiy. Some people you can fall in love with, and then the person turns into a totally complete different person. Doesn't mean you don't love them, just means you don't like who they turned into.

It's also the same with family members. With family, it's unconditional love. But sometimes the members can do stuff that makes you not like them or just in general, don't like who they are. But the love is still there.

We can't help who we fall in love with... even if it's someone we learn to not like!

Answer 4

Nope!

Answer 5

ask yourself this about this person? would you like to hang out with them right now? than ask , if they died would i cry and wish i hung out with them alot? think about it and the answer will come

Answer 6

family...my little sister

Answer 7

Absolutely I do.  When you are in love with someone and they hurt you so bad that you can't stand to be around him or her, you find you don't want to be around that person, even though you care very deeply and have strong feelings.  You begin to hate what they do and wish you hadn't spent so much time and energy on this person, or at least be deeply frustrated and disappointed in the way that you were treated.  You stop liking this person, and try to keep your distance, even though deep down there is still love.

Answer 8

yes...definatly...i know it is because i have....and i think i still do...

i was going out with this guy i loved...then he broke my heart...now i dont like him...but still love him...its really hard to explain....but its possible...trust me!

Answer 9

Absolutely.  If you have a person in your family who makes bad decisions with their life, you may not like them as a person, but you still love them as family.

Answer 10

Yeah, but it depends on what you mean.  You need to be more specific.  Family members, yes.  Significant others or friends... well you can love someone without being attracted to them sexually or even find them kind.

Answer 11

Yes  you love them only for what they do for you

Answer 12

I think so... have not thought that deep...:-(

Answer 13

no

Answer 14

i think so because i love my boyfriend but i cant stand him right now because he will not go with me to buy food at 12am he would rather i go alone and get raped -_- and i didnt eat all day even after karate training...bah.

Answer 15

Yes definately. But it is sad when it gets like that

Answer 16

Sure. You just want a s*x partner. NOT a commitment. You can have sexual intercourse and NOT be in love. THAT is what hookers and prostitutes are for.

Answer 17

Yes, but I would rather love and like.

It's like if you have a relative that is a jerk, so you don't like them. But they are family, and when he/she dies, then you will be sad.

Or if you have a family member that you don't really know, but you love them since they are family

You love them, but don't like them

Answer 18

I'm sure that applies to a lot of my family members...

but it's hard to completely dislike someone.  If you did, wouldn't that be hate?  And is it impossible to hate and love someone at the same time?

Boggling questions.

Answer 19

Sure.  You love your family but you don't necessarily have to think they're good people.

Answer 20

Well first and foremost, everyone has a different definition of love and as well as like. So if you check on them and care for them then you do love them. So if you do check on them and care for them but get annoyed and really don't "like" them. It all doesn't matter you still love them.

Answer 21

Of coarse! I cant stand my sister, but way deep inside my heart i love her. And when i mean way deep down, i mean way way way deep down. So My answer to this question is yes.

Answer 22

yeah - that's like the definition of extended family