Do you really have to be sexually attracted to the s*x you love ?

Question

I mean is that the basic charechteristic of your sexuality or do you define you sexuality as being in love with the s*x you love ..... and you really want to be with that person , rather than , blindly accepting the person you are sexually attracted to ?

Answer 1

sexless relationships can work.

if both of you feel the same way about one another

it's just a matter of how you deal with it.

Answer 2

People worry too much about this.

Ahh, I say just s***w it all.

Love who you love, who cares what s*x they are?

It's like bisexual is a trend these days.

No, it IS a trend.

So, I'll say it again: It DOESN'T MATTER.

If you really love them, their s*x is insignificant.  

Answer 3

WHAAAAATTTTT???

Answer 4

They are both important... eventually you will have sexual urges and if you aren't attracted to the one you're with... it could hurt your relationship.  They should go hand in hand.  You will need love and attraction for a long, happy relationship.

Answer 5

this question makes more sense if you read the other one first.

friends can love one another but that doesnt mean you are interested in them. it also isnt fair to marry someone for the sake of hiding your true feelings. it is not fair to the person you marry with the deception of the situation.