Do you reckon i deserve to be alone forever??

Question

i just got a message from my ex girlfriend who is still a little bitter about our split, the general jist of it is that i should never have another girlfriend after the stuff we went through, now, throughout our time together (7 years) we did loads of stuff together as a couple, also stuff apart which usually involved me with the lads and her with the girls, i would would occasionally take cocaine (a habit i have since kicked) now she tells everyone this was the reason for our split and i am a coke head!! we were happy and rarely had a row but she still has a hatred for me that i don't understand. any explanation gratefully received!!

Answer 1

Oh come on........... You did run off with a Transvestite called Trevor.

She did warn you,  she said it wouldnt work with you and him, But oh no.... you just wouldnt listen.

You didnt expect him to leave you for that sailor, but he did..... and that serves you right.

Bye Ducky.xx

Answer 2

She's just bitter about the split and wants to get back at you with anything she can..

Answer 3

As long as you never disrespected or hurt her in any way then there is no reason she should be like that.

You need to be positive and move on, be happy with yourself and someone new will soon come along.

Answer 4

Just be yourself

:Life has much more in store.

Answer 5

You've got baggage in-hand.

Put it down and consider:

a) Remove anything too heavy

b) Take frequent rest stops.

c)  Walk away without it.

Answer 6

Well this is just a guess .. based on the scant information ... but I suspect that the coke habit appalled her and she clearly didn't like what it made you. Taking coke is a massively powerful thing in its effect both of you and those close to you.  It leaves the soul with a nasty taste .... I don't think she can get that taste out of her system.  NO, of course not, you don't deserve to be alone, no one does that has half an ounce of decency in them.  My advice?  Get your whole image cleaned up ... you've started with the coke, now work on the rest of you .. you know, hygiene, clothes, habits .... your general psyche .... make yourself look fresh and appealing ... you've then just got to sell the "new you "...  think you can do that?  Good!

Answer 7

We could all give you a heap of answers, but the only person who knows the truth is your ex, so if you guys are still talking ask her in private why she broke up with you? and if you've ever done anything to upset her? Or however you want to ask.

And no, no one deserves to be lonely in their life.

Answer 8

No one deserves to be alone forever dont listen to that BS