Do you say that u wanna a divorce for the most dumbest arguements you and your husband go through?

Question

Me and my husband have this thing were we are always argueing for the most dumbest things. He says that one day he gonna leave me for good, even when its a arguement for something stupid.....He doesnt relize that I only have a few more weeks to go with this pregnancy and he is not even helping me, only when it concerns him. He always tells me when I cry that I have that habit for anything stupid even when I am not pregnant. HELLO I get very aggresive when I am on my monthly thing too. but yeah, so u guys go through that predictament????

Answer 1

no we hardly ever fight...if we do fight it is usually because of a misunderstanding... and i definitely love and respect my husband way too much to threaten such a horrible thing like divorce.  we are in this life together!!  we have twin girls and he is quite helpful...not always...but he does he share of the work!!  sounds like you guys need to work on fighting fairly!!!

edit---a lot of couples use the "round table" forum!! it is where you sit down and discuss your feelings without interrupting the other and not judging the other!! you just communicate your issues with one another FAIRLY!!  this isn't a time to fight...it is a time to discuss!

Answer 2

No, my husband and I have too much respect for, and love each other, too much to threaten something as serious as divorce. Yuo two need counseling- he sounds abusive.

Answer 3

Yes, everyone has arguments.  No, it's not healthy or normal to say that you (or him) are going to leave.  You should learn to control your temper though.   Being hormonal is not a good excuse for bad behavior.  If you feel unsociable then take a bubble bath and a nap, don't start an argument for sport.  You both sound a little immature and sorry to say that having a newborn is *not* going to solve your issues.

Answer 4

well sure, every couple has dumb arguments. how you handle those dumb arguments is what makes the difference between a good marriage and a bad one. threatening to divorce the other person is not right way to handle these arguments. you guys need to have a serious discussion about your relationship. if you guys arent able to sit down and communicate your feelings with eachother, its time to get the help of a professional. if either one of you isnt willing to do that, maybe it is time for a divorce.

Answer 5

it sounds like the two of you need counseling. in 6 years of marriage my husband and i have never said we were going to leave the other or said that we wanted a divorce.

divorce is no joke and marriage itself something that too many people take too lightly in my opinion.

Answer 6

me and my partner have rows, and we all say things we dont mean but to be truthful you should feel like u are getting the help u need during your pregnancy, remember it took two to make the baby and so you should be sharing responsibility, remember that there are more important things in life than those pointless things which cause the worst of arguements, next time you are arguing go to a quite place and chill for 10mins then if you still feel the same you probably have a just reason for being upset, i find that if i go to my bedroom and spend 10mins cuddling with my dog that i will feel better and either realise that i am a) hurt or b) whining over nothing.

Most importantly - you are pregnant, being stressed out is not good for your baby, hope this helps and sorry you are feeling this way :(