Do you think 15 is too young to lose your virginity? what age did you lose yours?

Question

do you think that's too young? I really love my boyfriend though and i trust him and i feel completely ready, i've wanted to have s*x for such a long time. Is it wrong to do that behind your parents back?

What age did you lose your virginity?

Answer 1

im 15 and ive lost it and i dont regret any minute of it love him so mcuh  

Answer 2

I lost mine when i was 14 and yes...i really regret it. I felt ashamed after and i was really betrayed. I thought the boy really liked me, but i was used and found out the next day that he was with another girl the night before. 15 is quite young seeing as its under the age of consent, but i can only advise from experience. You'll probably feel guilty about going behind your parent's back...its going to be the last thing they want. If you love your boyfriend and you've been with him long enough to be that intimate...and you know that he genuinely loves you back,then do it if its what you want. Be careful though, trust and s*x don't always go together...boys can pressure girls for s*x...and most cannot be trusted.  Hope this helps!  

Answer 3

well i was 14... biggest mistake in life and i think you should do it when you prepared

Answer 4

i think thats too young...i lost mine when i was 17 but i was really sure i loved my boyfriend and he deserved it...im 21 and we're still together! but, i had a boyfriend when i was 14 and i thought about having s*x with him, and guess what? i'm  so happy i didn't do it...at 15 everything seems perfect, but as you grow up, there is so much more that you'll understand about your guy that will help you know if he deserves you...i think you should wait a while and if he really loves you, he wont have any problem

Answer 5

It's usually a mistake to lose your virginity in high school- sorry to be a downer.  I'll probably get a thumbs down for this, but here goes:

I think people shouldn't have s*x until they're ready to have kids (that way, you don't get any unpleasant surprises).  

s*x opens this Pandora's box- you can't get your virginity back, ever.  Then you have to keep up with your gynecological exams (pap smears, birth control, etc).  s*x can get addictive and there are a lot of emotional attachments that go along with it (what if you break up with him?  It's a lot of emotional investment into one person).  

If you're only having s*x because you feel that he'll leave you if you don't, you'll be glad you waited and lost him, than let him emotionally manipulate you into having s*x with him.  No one is ever sorry that they waited to have s*x.

If you start having s*x now, you'll probably keep having it, and your parents will eventually find out, whether they catch you in the act or find a condom in your purse, etc.  It's best to wait, good to be honest with your parents if you choose to have s*x, and hiding it is the worst thing you can do.  

Answer 6

Yes. wait for your wedding day, first, and your B/F to be your husband.

Answer 7

wow well i'll tell you something im 16 and lost mine at 15 with my fiance and we felt so ready and everything were deeply in love and knew it was the right time but if you think you are ready adn yes we did and still do it behind our parents back and to me in my opinion i dont think its wrong at all becuz we are truly in love an kno we are goin to be together forever and we are exsepecting a baby soon now in about 8 months and im 16

if you think that you are ready to have s*x with a man that you think you are in love with and trust thats he's not like others to brag then you should do it but make sure you kno he's the one you want dont just let you hormones control your mind do what you think is right..!  

Answer 8

I was 16, jr in high school. It depends on your situation I guess but Love is important and being save is Extremely important. don't do it just to do it. also make sure this isn't something you will regret later in life.

Answer 9

I know I'll get thumbs down for saying this ..

But if you's are both 100% ready for it then do it :)

Im the same age as you and my boyfriend is 17 too. We're doing it for the first time soon too..

Use protection tho

x

Answer 10

wait

Answer 11

Yes.. that is way too young.. how old is your boyfriend? How long have you been together? How do you know that he isn't going to leave you after it? Think about it....  

Answer 12

yea that is way to young. my friend lost hers at 19 i think that that is a much better age. if you really love him, then you should be able to wait

Answer 13

It's not really... some people would say yes... but aslong as you do it when you know you are ready thats fine. I'm 13, so a little obviously I still have mine, but I do know people my age that don't have theirs.  

Answer 14

You really should wait Nobody knows what loves is ect specially at 15  

Answer 15

16 lost mines ... really in this world at some point its hard to trust someone truly when it comes to love . i mean he can be with u for 3 years and u never know what his done .. but if u feel ready then go for it , just use protection be safe . sometimes u feel guilty but yea at another u should feel proud of yourself for using  protection . but once ur 18 ur parents should understand , cuz c'mon they must of done it at that certain age.

Answer 16

I dont know i think 15 is a little young but i mean i dont know you and who am i to judge you. But if you are going to do it please just be really careful and be safe. I didnt loose mine until I was married, but if you really think you are ready then only you know what is best for you but make sure you think about it a lot before you do it.

Answer 17

i lost mine at the age of 23. my bf is 29.

i think that age is too young...

better wait until marriage to be sure of everything.

Answer 18

i lost mine on my 16th birthday this past april. it was my 9th month anniversary with my boyfriend as well. it was amazing. it hurt like h**l but it was amazing after the pain anyways haha me and him are still together and september third is gunna be our year and 2 months=] we couldn't be any happier.

but if you feel your ready and you know everything there is to know about s*x then go for it hun. just be careful. get on birth control and use a condom EVERYTIME!!! whether your on the pill or not. refuse s*x if he isnt gunna use a condom. dont become another teen pregnancy statistic. be smart and enjoy=]

Answer 19

To me,

it really doesn't matter what age you are or anything,

as long as your READY and you really trust your boyfreind,

and you know that your in love.

Im 13 and i lost mine not too long ago.

I really don't regret it,

ive been lovin this guy since last october,

and i know hes the right one.

Im so happy with him and i trust him so much.

Anyways,it's your decision :)

Good luck!